Trans 101 for Trans People


This is not your average transgender 101. I will not go over the basics of what gender and sex are. I will not define the word “transgender” here. There will be no gender unicorns here. If you’re looking for that, check out my Gender and Sexual Minorities 101 slides. This is a transgender 101 for trans people!

Transition can be complicated and confusing. Accurate and understandable information is rarely all in one place. There are a lot of “trans 101” articles out there for cis people, but not so many to help trans people through transition. This is my attempt to remedy that. It’s my attempt to pull together as many answers to as many questions as I can. I hope they’re helpful.

Just a friendly reminder — I am not your physician and cannot give medical advice on the internet. If you have questions or concerns about your health in particular, please do give your doctor a call. If you’re in the market for a doctor, please either contact your local trans organization or take a look through the lists that WPATH and GLMA maintain of trans-friendly providers.

This is a living document. I will continue to update it as I publish more parts and as I receive feedback from the community. Content will change over time.

This document was last updated on October 13, 2017.

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Table of Contents

General Questions

General Medical Questions

General Hormone Questions

General Surgery Questions

General Questions

Help! I think I’m trans. How do I know for certain?

Only you can truly answer that question. At this time there is no test that will give you a definite “Yes” or “No.” There are, however, things you can do that might help you figure it out. These include…

  • Talking with a knowledgeable psychotherapist.
  • Talking with trans people
  • Attending a trans support group
  • Using thought experiments. Some examples can be found here.
  • Socially transitioning in safe spaces (e.g., if you’re male-assigned, wearing “women’s” clothing while at home).

Some people go through a period of thinking that they may be trans and ultimately decide that they are not. That’s OK too! Take your time and explore. There is no age limit to transition. If you ultimately decide to transition at age 80, you can. If you know right now that you need to transition, you can. If you decide that you are not trans or that you do not want to transition, you can.

How do I stop having gender dysphoria? Is there a therapy that can cure me?

There is no psychotherapy or drug that will make you stop having gender dysphoria. For years mental health professionals tried to “cure” transgender people by making them cisgender… and it worked about as well as reparative therapy for gay people. In other words, it didn’t work. Psychotherapy that tries to make trans people not trans only makes depression, anxiety, and suicidal thoughts worse.

Medical, social, and legal transition is the only recognized treatment that helps.

Is it a brain condition? I heard someone say being transgender is an intersex condition. Is that true?

Maybe. There have been some studies of trans brains that seem to suggest that trans brains may be different from cis brains. An area of particular interest is the bed nucleus of the stria terminalis. That brain area seems to be associated with gender, not chromosomes or hormones. But those studies have not been repeated, so we don’t know for sure if the findings were real. I would not take this evidence as absolute proof.

Transgender is not currently considered an intersex condition. Intersex refers to people who were born with ambiguous genitals or were diagnosed with a disorder of sex development (DSD). DSDs are medical conditions that affect the biological sex development of an individual. They can be chromosomal, hormonal, or gonadal. Examples include Accord Alliance has excellent information on DSDs. While some individuals with DSDs may transition later in life, they’re not considered transgender. According to the DSM, to be diagnosed as transgender a person cannot have a DSD.

Wait, diagnosis? DSM? What’s that?

Transgender is a medical and psychological diagnosis. It’s listed in both the International Classification of Diseases (ICD) and the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM). The ICD is used by physicians. The DSM is used by psychologists. Transgender is listed either as “Gender Dysphoria” or “Gender Identity Disorder”, depending on the source.

The fact that transgender is considered a medical/psychological disorder is controversial. Some feel it is a natural human variation that shouldn’t be treated as a disease. Others prefer to keep the diagnosis as a diagnosis. They consider being trans as something to fix with transition. And transgender’s existence as a medical/mental diagnosis means that health insurances can be billed for medical care relating to being trans. That means hormone therapy and surgery can be covered by insurance.

Debate continues within the academic and medical communities, with trans and cis voices on both sides.

Can I be trans if I don’t identify as a man or a woman? What about being genderqueer?

Yes, and yes. There is increasing awareness that not everybody fits into the man/woman boxes. For a good blog on being trans but not gender binary, check out Neutrois Nonsense.

Am I trans if I didn’t feel trans as a child? or I only thought about this as a teenager or young adult, so I can’t really be trans, right?

Yes, you can be trans even if you didn’t think about it as a child. Some people strongly feel, and strongly argue, their gender identity as children. Others only begin to realize it when they begin to enter puberty. Still others don’t realize that they’re trans for decades — until they’re in their 30s, 40s, 50s, or beyond.

Whenever you being to suspect you’re trans, or whenever you decide to explore gender, it’s OK. It doesn’t make you any more or less trans. Everyone has their own road to walk.

I think I might be trans, but I don’t like the things I’m supposed to…

That’s ok! Not all women like to wear dresses and not all men like (American) football. It doesn’t make you any less a person nor any less trans. If a health care provider or therapist says you should like and do stereotypical things, that’s a red flag. You may want to seek a second opinion.

Okay, I’m definitely trans. Now what?

Now you have a decision to make. You can do something about it, or you can not do something about it. You can continue to live your life the way you have been. You do not have to transition. You can postpone any changes. Or you can choose to transition.

Some wait until they turn 18. Some wait for their kids to turn 18. Others wait for partners or parents to pass away. You can wait. Or you can do something right now.

Whatever you decide, you may want to consider getting support to help with any associated stress. That support can be a group, a therapist, a good friend, whatever is meaningful for you.

I want to come out and transition now. Where do I start?

In research studies, trans people tend to say that getting a support team in place is the best first step. And that’s a lot of what I’ve heard too.

Your road may get a bit bumpy. You may lose your job, house, friends or family. Many do. Take a look through the National Transgender Discrimination Survey to get a sense for what may happen for you. The time to prepare is now, before you’ve come out or started to transition.

Support can be from a trans-specific group, a more general LGBT group, a therapist, friends, family, people on the ‘net…. whatever works for you in your situation.

The other thing that I’ve heard is to start saving pennies, so to speak. If you choose to medically or legally transition, that process can be expensive.


Transition can be broken down into three categories: Medical, social and legal.

  • Medical transition: hormones and/or surgery to physically change your body
  • Social transition: changing pronouns, presentation, and social behavior
  • Legal: changing legal name and legal gender (M/F) on all your paperwork. In the US, usually involves a court order

Sometimes these areas intersect, but other times they don’t. It’s up to you to decide what, where, and how you want to transition.

Now it’s time for research. What are the laws in your state or country? Do you have access locally to hormones or surgery? A local organization can sometimes help, if they exist. They may not exist though. A search engine can help you find physicians and lawyers.

Do you want to do hormones? Surgery? A legal name change? Does your state prohibit workplace discrimination? Does your state require surgery before you can change your name or sex marker? How would you even pay for surgery or hormones — does your health insurance cover them? Now’s the time to find out!

Reading through the World Professional Association for Transgender Health‘s Standards of Care is probably a good place to start when it comes to medical transition. It’s a big wordy document, but it summarizes how providers should be approaching your trans-related health care.

If you are a minor, things get complicated even with parental support. That’s another question though.

How do I find support?

Try your local diversity/LGBT center first. It may be affiliated with your local university, so try there if there aren’t any independent ones. Diversity centers may have trans support groups or be able to recommend a therapist or physician in your area. Even if the closest center is on the other side of the state, it’s worth asking if they know of anything in your area.

No luck? Time to try your preferred search engine. Search terms like “transgender support group near…” usually bring up some kind of results. Still no luck? Try the search query “transgender support”. It pulled up a lot of things for me. You can ask around in the reddit’s /r/asktransgender too.

PFLAG has a massive list of resources as well, including support groups. Take a look and see if any work for you!

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Is it transgender or transsexual?

The difference between transgender and transsexual differs depending on who you’re talking to. Some consider transsexual offensive, others prefer it. Transsexual is an older term and much more common in the medical community. It’s also used more in countries other than the US.

Some object to the term transsexual because of the way trans people have been treated by medicine. Others feel it hypersexualizes trans folk or conflates sexual orientation with gender identity. Yet others strongly prefer the term transsexual, as they feel their gender dysphoria is strictly a medical issue. Others object to the term transgender because of its use as an “umbrella” term, lumping transsexuality in with genderqueer, crossdressing, and drag.

All this argument is generally why I say trans. Some people say “trans*” instead, to make the dual meaning clear. I say/write “trans”, with the implication that I could be using either.

My working distinction between transsexual and transgender, when a distinction is needed? Transsexual is specifically an individual who is cross-sex identified, typically fits within the gender binary, and wants to go through full transition including genital surgery. Transgender includes non-binary identified people and people who do not want to do a full transition. Transsexual is much more a medical term, where transgender includes a component of changing social norms.

Am I too old to transition?



General Medical Questions

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Some doctors are pretty cool.


Where do I find a health care provider?

First, know that you don’t necessarily need to see an endocrinologist. A family doctor or internist can deliver all the same care!

If you have a trans-knowledgeable therapist, I’d start by asking them. Many times professionals know each other and network heavily. If there’s a provider who isn’t quite close enough to you, you can still call and ask their office if they know of anyone closer to you. Local LGBT organizations, as always, are another good place to start. There’s an informed consent clinic list here which may also be helpful for you, though it’s not complete. WPATH has a provider list, as does GLMA. Some Planned Parenthood clinics provide transgender care as well. If you’re near one, your best chances are likely in big cities.

There may also be a website that’s compiled your local resources. For example, I stumbled onto Trans Ohio the other day and they appear to have a nice big list! So Google is definitely your friend here. Try a query like “transgender health care near….”

Help! I can’t find any providers! What are my options?

Sometimes there truly isn’t a knowledgeable health care provider near you. In that case, your best option may be to find a provider who’s willing to learn. This will likely take a lot of trial and error. You can save a few bucks by calling the office and asking instead of going in to meet face to face. Be patient. I generally have found that there are two different learning curves: learning how to give hormones, and learning how to treat trans people with respect. The latter seems to be harder than the former. Keep giving your provider feedback! Remember that you may be very different from trans people your provider has seen before, or will see later. And don’t lose hope. Remember that you’re also helping other folks who meet this physician in the future.

There is support out there for physicians willing to learn about trans care. Refer physicians to them! I recommend:

I was treated badly by a provider or their staff. What do I do?

If you can, please let them know. It may have been unintentional. Accidental misgendering does happen, even by the best of providers. There may be corrective actions the provider may want to take as a result of a complaint. If you can, meet in person with the physician responsible. Stay calm, use lots of “I” statements. Writing a letter is another option. If things go south, find another provider. But you may be pleasantly surprised!

Also consider notifying your state medical board or investigating if the physician broke an anti-discrimination law. If the misbehavior was serious or negatively affected your health, consider consulting an attorney. The Transgender Law Center, the NCTE, and others can probably help.

Wait… don’t I need a letter from a therapist or something?

Maybe. It depends on your situation and the physician you see. WPATH’s Standards of Care (version 6) used to require 3 months of therapy and a letter from a therapist before hormones could be started. Version 7 no longer requires therapy. Therapy continues to be highly recommended.

Version 7 does recommend a letter from a mental health provider before getting hormones. Many physicians do feel more comfortable prescribing if they have that letter. Others work under an “informed consent” model. They don’t require a letter, but do ask that you sign paperwork saying that you understand the risks involved.

In some instances a letter or therapy may be required. For example, if you’re close to age 18, have comorbid psychiatric conditions, or are at university, Call your physician before making the appointment to find out their policy. A letter from therapist/psychologist is definitely required for bottom/genital surgeries.

Anything I should definitely tell or not tell my physician?

Tell your physician about all your health history. Better yet, have your records sent beforehand! Few conditions mean that you can’t have hormone therapy at all. There are some medical conditions that may need to be controlled before you can start hormones. Some conditions may require a different approach to hormones. Tell your physician about any “risky” behaviors (e.g., sex work) – they need to know these so that they can screen appropriately. If you have a trauma history and cannot tolerate some physical examinations or need extra help with them, let them know that too.

It will likely be helpful for your physician if you’re clear about preferred name and pronouns. Some physicians have intake sheets specifically for trans patients which ask about gender history, and pronouns may be included there. If you have a name/pronoun change, please let them know so they can continue to be accurate and respectful. Let them know if you’re closeted or stealth so they can be confidential in communications. Tell them if their staff should, or should not, leave confidential messages on your phone. Also tell them if you need a specific name or gender marker on prescriptions and/or lab work for insurance or legal reasons. If you have preferred names for body parts or are very dysphoric, tell them!

If you’re genderqueer, neutrois, or just want to individualize your transition, tell your physician. There are different paths available to you.

Don’t lie to your physician. Don’t feel you have to spout the “standard narrative” if it’s not you. Don’t feel you have to wear makeup or hugely baggy manly pants. Be yourself.

Can I start hormones on the first visit?

Maybe. Depends on the physician, your age, your health, and your readiness. If your hormones are delivered by injection (testosterone, some estrogens) then you’ll need training. Some physicians use a mail-order compounding pharmacy like Strohecker’s so you may not get your hormones immediately. Don’t be disappointed if you don’t get your prescription right away, but also don’t be afraid to ask why!

Wait a minute… my labs have the wrong gender marker!

This may not be a case of misgendering. For some tests there are “male” and “female” ranges – and not just for hormones. Hematocrit is testosterone-sensitive, for example. So the marker used will determine the “normal” ranges shown on the lab work, and those should be the most appropriate ranges for your physiology. Sadly physiology doesn’t always match up with gender. So if you’re pre-hormones your lab work may initially say your sex instead of your gender.

Do make sure you ask your physician though. They should be able to explain why a certain marker was used. Sometimes it really was an error.

It should also be noted that for cervical cancer screenings the gender marker often needs to be F for insurance purposes. Those silly insurance companies haven’t gotten the heads-up yet that men need cancer screenings too.


Hormone Therapy

Hormone therapy is a corner stone for medical transition. For many (but not all) trans people, hormone therapy is all they choose to do.

Terminology notes: In the medical literature, hormone therapy is often referred to as “cross-sex hormone therapy”. In the community I’ve seen it more often called HRT for short. I prefer to call it HRT myself. It’s important to note that trans hormone therapy is different from the “hormone replacement therapy” used in cis men and cis women.

Which specific hormones get used depend on one’s health, age, location, and money. Some physicians choose to do a slow ramp up on dosage. Others do not. Your mileage will vary.



Hormones for adult trans women/people assigned male at birth

The modern hormone regime includes an estrogen and an anti-androgen. Why the anti-androgen? It lets us use lower doses of estrogen. We don’t want to do large doses of estrogen because of negative side effects and associated health risks. Anti-androgens have also been used for a long time for other medical reasons, so their risks are well known. So both an estrogen and an anti-androgen are used.

Which Estrogen? There are three common choices: orally/sublingually, intramuscular, and transdermal. Oral/sublingual is the most common and cheapest. These forms are also used as part of hormone replacement therapy for cis women.

One type of estrogen pill (

One type of estrogen pill (

  • Orally/Sublingually: The current estrogen of choice is 17β-estradiol (brand name Estrace). It comes as a pill which can be either swallowed or dissolved under the tongue. Common wisdom says under the tongue (sublingual) may be safer for the liver, but there hasn’t been research published on that yet. This is often the cheapest form. Generic forms of Esterase are often available on $4/month plans at various pharmacies.
  • Intramuscular (e.g., estradiol valerate): Delivered as an injection that goes deep into muscle tissue. Requires injection training, and you probably should carry paperwork if you’re traveling with injection supplies. Some people say they transition faster on injection, but there’s little evidence in the medical literature. Dosing can be done weekly or biweekly. Women sometimes report that they start to feel moody or irritable towards the end of their injection cycle.
  • Transdermal (through the skin): Estrogen patches. Generally considered lowest risk, and provide the most consistent blood estrogen level. Patches are applied twice a week. Different brands of patch are different sizes and ability to stick to skin. Expensive if you don’t have insurance coverage for it.
  • Other options may be available. I’ve seen estrogen sprays and creams advertised, but have not seen them be used forr trans care. I’ve also heard reports of estrogen pellets being placed under the skin, but I’ve not seen them in use in the US.

There are forms of estrogen which aren’t recommended for transition. Premarin was used 10+ years ago, but is currently not recommended because it’s higher riskEthinyl estradiol is also higher risk than the estrogens listed above and is generally used in the United States for trans women. Birth control pills also should not be used because they often contain ethinyl estradiol.

What health conditions may affect whether I can take estrogen or not?

The big ones are previous history of deep vein thrombosis (DVT), estrogen-sensitive cancers, and allergy to estrogen-related products. They can all be fatal. If you have had them, you may not be prescribed estrogen at all. If this is the case for you, don’t despair. Anti-androgens can also provide some feminization.

A physician may be reluctant to prescribe estrogen if you have the following conditions…

  • Thrombophilia disorders or tobacco use, which make you prone to blood clots.
  • BRCA mutation, which raises your risk for breast and other reproductive cancers.
  • A personal history (not family history) of stroke, heart attack, or blood clots
  • Liver disease, including alcoholic cirrhosis, or untreated hepatitis.
  • High triglycerides or a history of pancreatitis (inflammation of the pancreas)
  • Meningioma

These conditions do not necessarily mean that you can’t receive estrogen. But estrogen is riskier for you. Talk with your physician about your risks. There may be medications, medical procedures, or lifestyle choices that reduce your risk.

Estrogen can also change how some disorders need to be managed. For example, estrogen can make asthma worse or increase the frequency of migraines. Make sure your doctor knows if you have any of the following conditions so adjustments can be made if necessary: asthma, insulin resistance, diabetes, cardiovascular disease, heart failure, kidney disease or failure, epilepsy (seizures), gallbladder disease, jaundice, obesity, parathyroid disease, migraines, porphyria, lupus, and thyroid disease.

And as always, estrogen and other medications can conflict. So make sure you tell your doctor everything you’re taking, including herbs, supplements, and alternative medicine!


Estradiol Molecule

Estradiol Molecule

Which anti-androgen?

The three anti-androgens of choice are spironolactone, cyproterone acetate, and the GnRH agonists. Other drugs, like those used for prostate cancer, do have anti-androgen effects but aren’t in common use for medical transition.

In the United States the anti-androgen of choice is spironolactone. This drug was used for many many years for people in heart failure. It’s generally safe. It is a diuretic, meaning it makes you pee. We’re lucky that it happens to act as an anti-androgen too. Spironolactone can feminize some on its own because of its anti-androgen effect. Doses can be as high as 200-300mg per day. We prefer doses around 100-200mg per day, since high doses tend to have more side effects without more benefits. Spironolactone both blocks testosterone receptors and directly reduces the amount of testosterone being made. Spironolactone is cheap and easy to take. It’s often on “four dollar” or discount medication plans at US pharmacies. That’s why it’s so popular!

Outside of the United States the anti-androgen of choice is cyproterone acetate. Cyproterone acetate was never approved by the FDA, so it’s not available in the United States. It blocks androgen receptors, preventing testosterone and other androgens from having their effects. By blocking those receptors, it reduces the amount of testosterone in the body through a mechanism called negative feedback. Cyproterone is chemically similar to progesterone and has some progesterone-like effects as well. It’s available both as a pill and intramuscular injection. The pill form should be taken every day at the same time after a meal. The dose often used for transition in the literature is 100mg/day. Anecdotally I’ve been told that lower doses, such as 25-50mg/day, have been used. The injection is given once every 1-2 weeks.

Information on GnRH agonists is covered in the trans youth section.

One type of spironolactone pill (

One type of spironolactone pill (

What health conditions may affect whether I can take spironolactone or not?

Spironolactone is a potassium-sparing diuretic. So it’ll make you pee a lot, but you won’t pee out your potassium.

The most worrisome side effect is hyperkalemia, or too much potassium in the blood. It can lead to heart rhythm disturbances and can be fatal. When you first start on spironolactone it’s important to get regular blood tests are important to screen for hyperkalemia. If your potassium levels start to go up you may need to avoid potassium in your diet. Here’s a list to get you started on potassium-rich foods. Most people don’t get hyperkalemia. Your physician should test your potassium levels regularly to help you stay safe.

The biggest day-to-day side effect that people note about spironolactone is that it… well… it’s a diuretic. It makes you pee. A lot. You may want to avoid taking it right before bedtime so it doesn’t disturb your sleep. But as always, your mileage will vary. Make sure you drink plenty of water.

You may not be able to take spironolactone if you have a history of kidney disease, hyperkalemia, or Addison’s disease. Spironolactone should not be taken if you’re also taking eplenerone, a drug in the same class without anti-androgen effects. Some people have an allergic reaction to spironolactone — if you have, then you should definitely not take spironolactone.

Other disorders that should be discussed with your doctor before starting spironolactone include: heart failure, liver disease, and kidney disease of any kind.

What health conditions may affect whether I can take cyproterone or not?

Most seriously, cyproterone is associated with liver damage. That damage can be severe. It can lead to liver failure even after the drug is stopped. Damage has been reported with doses over 100mg/day. Because of this, people on cyproterone should have their livers regularly monitored with blood tests. The drug should not be combined with other drugs that can cause liver damage. That includes alcohol and many prescription drugs. Individuals with known liver damage/disease should not take cyproterone.

There is also some question of whether the drug is associated with some cancers. Specifically, hepatocellular carcinoma (liver cancer) and meningioma are the cancers of concern. Researchers are still exploring this connection. Other side effects of cyproterone include allergic reactions and worsening of depression.

People with these disorders should avoid taking cyproterone: allergy to cyproterone, liver disease, liver tumors, meningioma, blood clots.

People with these disorders should use extra caution and talk with their doctor before taking cyproterone: Depression, cardiovascular disease, diabetes.

Other drugs that are used?

Finasteride is an anti-androgen used to slow/stop a receding hair line. Specifically, it blocks the conversion of testosterone to its more active form, dihydrotestosterone. Some trans women and trans men use it for receding hair line. Other trans women use it when other anti-androgens can’t be used for health reasons. Dutasteride is a similar drug that is also used.

Progesterone is another drug which is sometimes used. Progesterone is another sex hormone created by ovaries. Its use in medical transition is currently debated. Some people use it for mood, libido, or breast development. Research supporting these claims is scarce, and progesterone comes with its own health risks, particularly heart disease and blood clot risks.

Viagra is sometimes prescribed when there are significant erectile problems.

What are the major physical/emotional effects of HRT?

Breast growth, fat redistribution, decreased libido, decreased ability to have an erection, testicular shrinkage, skin softening. Facial hair may grow more slowly. HRT also has psychological effects but these are highly variable. Some report greater moodiness and ability to cry, others feel more calm. Spatial abilities may change. Sexuality may also shift – not just who you’re attracted to, but how you’re attracted and what you want to do in the bedroom. HRT can cause infertility, so if you want biological children you should bank sperm or conceive them before starting HRT.

There is no way to pick and choose effects. Your body will do with HRT whatever it is going to do. Wiki has a great, detailed, cited list.

What kind of blood test monitoring am I looking at here?

Your physician will likely want to do regular blood tests every couple of months in the beginning to make sure you’re staying healthy. The big things they’ll likely check include potassium levels (via a “complete metabolic panel” or CMP), lipids including cholesterol and triglycerides, and estrogen/testosterone levels (varies by physician). They’ll also want to check your prolactin level at least once, since HRT carries a risk of a type of growth called a prolactinoma. Other tests may also be done, depending on your health history. Other common tests include a complete blood count (CBC) which can detect anemia, and thyroid tests. Your physician may do other screening depending on your own risk factors.

What about breast cancer?!

There’s a lot of fear about breast cancer. There are no large studies of breast cancer in trans women. However a small study was published in 2013. You can see my review of it here. A few case reports also exist. So far it doesn’t appear that trans women are at high risk for breast cancer.

Ask your physician what level of screening is appropriate for you.

How big are my breasts going to get?

The “rule of thumb” is that you’ll likely be one cup size smaller than your closest women (genetic) relatives. This is by no means accurate. There are no studies. It is a fair place to start, however. Like for all women, your breast size will be a roll of the genetic dice.

What won’t HRT do?

HRT cannot change your bones. Your height will remain the same. Though the fat on top may redistribute, your hip bones and facial bones will stay the same. It cannot change your voice, though you can change the way you use that voice. It cannot reverse a receding hair line or remove facial hair. There are surgeries which can help with some of these. Hair can be removed by electrolysis or laser. Facial feminization surgery is an option for women who can afford it. Vocal training and vocal surgery are also options.

I just started taking HRT. When can I expect results?

WPATH’s SOC7 has a really nice breakdown…

From the WPATH Standards of Care version 7

From the WPATH Standards of Care version 7

This is taking way too long. I want changes now!

Hormone therapy like a second puberty – it will take years. There is no way to speed up hormonal transition. Increasing your hormone dose will not speed things up.

What if I choose to go off hormones?

You can do that. Some hormone changes, like breast growth, are permanent. Others, like the redistribution of fat, are not permanent. Going off hormones can cause many of the symptoms of menopause: hot flashes, night sweats, and irritability.

If you no longer have your testes then going off hormone therapy means you have very low hormone levels. This can increase your risk for osteoporosis and later bone fractures. Your physician will advise you on your own risks, and recommend staying on hormones or not.

How will my hormones change after surgery?

Once your testes are removed, you will lose your major source of sex hormones. Anti-androgens are no longer needed, though some women choose to stay on spironolactone at a very low dose. You will likely need to stay on estrogen supplements for the rest of your life. Having no sex hormones at all is not good for bone health.

What can I do to minimize my risk factors?

Take care of yourself. Don’t use tobacco. Drink alcohol in moderation or not at all. Eat a healthy diet — not a lot of red meat, processed food or fast food but lots of fruits, vegetables and whole grains. Maintain a healthy weight – right in the Goldilocks zone, as it were. Avoid crash diets. Exercise!! Find something that works for you and do it. If that means walking on the treadmill while you play your favorite video game (like me when I started), then do it and have fun. If you have any disease that run in the family, be sure to tell your physician. Ask them if they have any recommendations. Take care of your mental health. See a therapist if you need to. And don’t forget to practice safe sex.

What side effects should I call my doctor about?

In addition to the “usual” stuff, like high fever, chest pains, faintness, or any significant changes, there are certain symptoms you should definitely tell your doctor about. Vision changes, sudden headaches and sharp persistent leg pains should be called in. You may need to go to urgent care or the emergency department for more testing. If you develop a rash or swelling after injecting estrogen, you should also tell your physician. That may be a sign you’re allergic to the oil the estrogen is suspended in.

Will masturbating limit the effectiveness of my hormones?

No. You will not be “flushing” hormones out of your body when you masturbate. You can continue to masturbate. On hormones you may have difficulty getting aroused. This is normal. A little creativity and patience can usually help, but if that’s not working there are medical options for you. Talk with your physician.

Anything else?

Communicate with your physician! Let them know what effects you’re experiencing – the information is useful not just in your care but for anyone else they prescribe hormones for in the future. Make sure you read all your prescribing information and ask your physician or pharmacist if you have questions.



Hormones for adult trans men/people assigned female at birth

Testosterone is the primary hormone therapy medication for trans men. No anti-estrogen medication is required. Be aware that testosterone is a controlled medication, so be sure to carry paperwork when you travel with it!

Which Testosterone? Testosterone can be given either as an injection or transdermally. Oral testosterone should not be used because it can cause liver damage.

Testosterone should never be given above what your health care provider. The body converts some of its testosterone to estrogen. So the higher the dose of testosterone, the higher the estrogen in the end. This can be counterproductive for transition and can be risky.

Testosterone molecule

Testosterone molecule

  • Intramuscular injection (e.g., Depo-Testosterone): The primary form of testosterone given for trans men, especially early in hormone therapy. It’s an injection given deep into muscle tissue, like the flu shot. As with all injections, it requires injection training. Injections can be given weekly or biweekly. Some European countries have formulations that are given monthly.
  • Subcutaenous injection: This is a newer way of giving testosterone. It an injection given under the skin, rather than deep into muscle (intramuscular). Studies are currently underway to determine efficacy. However, it may be an option offered by your health care provider.
  • Transdermal gels, creams, sprays, and under-arm applications (e.g., Androgel, Axiron): More expensive than injections, but no needles involved. They are a cream or gel product that is smeared on the skin and absorbed through the skin. Common wisdom says transition is slower with transdermal applications but I haven’t seen data published yet. Gels and creams can be messy and must be kept away from other people especially pregnant people (it can cause harm to the fetus). Gels and creams can also be used on the clitoris, in addition to testosterone injections, to help increase growth.

What health conditions affect whether I can take testosterone or not?

High red blood cell concentrations (polycythemia) is a really big one. Testosterone can worsen or cause polycythemia by stimulating bone marrow to produce more red blood cells. If this happens, your testosterone dose will likely need to be lowered.

Other serious health concerns that may mean you should not take testosterone include: allergy to testosterone products, breast cancer, pregnancy.

Conditions that should be discussed with your doctor before starting testosterone include: cardiovascular disease, migraine, liver disease, high calcium blood levels (hypercalcemia), sleep apnea.

High cholesterol, high blood pressure, and diabetes will likely need to be assessed and controlled before testosterone. Other conditions may also need to be controlled. As always, you should not drink alcohol heavily or smoke while on testosterone.




What other drugs are used?

  • Depo-Provera can be used to stop menstruation when testosterone can’t be given. It appears not to increase gender dysphoria because it doesn’t feminize.
  • Other forms of hormonal birth control, like the Nexplanon, can also be used to stop menstruation.
  • Aromatase inhibitors may be used for some people. These drugs prevent testosterone from converting to estrogen.
  • Finasteride and related anti-androgens can be used in trans men to prevent hair loss.
  • Special formulation testosterone and dihydrotestosterone creams can be used on the clitoris to increase growth if desired.

What are the major physical and emotional effects of HRT?

Cessation of menstruation, deepening of voice, facial and body hair growth, masculinization of face, increase in muscle mass, enlargement of the clitoris, increase in acne and possible male-pattern baldness. Please note that testosterone is not birth control and it is possible to become pregnant on testosterone. Testosterone can also cause vaginal atrophy (drying out of the vagina, loss of elasticity).

Emotionally many men report that they have increased energy and confidence. Some trans men report that they have a harder time accessing their emotions. Some have expressed concern that testosterone may increase rage (“Roid rage”) or worsen mental health. Anecdotally this does not appear to be the case for trans men. Sexuality may also shift – not just who you’re attracted to, but how you’re attracted and what you want to do in the bedroom.

There is no way to pick and choose effects. Your body will do with HRT whatever it is going to do. Wiki has a great, detailed, cited list.

What kind of blood testing will I need?

Your physician will likely want to do regular blood tests every couple of months in the beginning to make sure you’re staying healthy. Likely tests include a CMP (complete metabolic panel) to check the health of your liver and kidneys, CBC (complete blood count) to check for polycythemia, lipids (cholesterol/triglycerides), and estrogen/testosterone levels. Other tests may be ordered depending on your health history. Thyroid tests are also common.

What won’t HRT do?

It can’t remove breast tissue, though some trans men anecdotally report slight shrinkage. Removal can only be done surgically. Testosterone can’t change bones or height.

Will I be really fuzzy? Really smooth?

Frankly, nobody knows. Your best bet for a prediction is to look at your closest male relatives. You will likely have similar levels of hair and hair loss.

I just started taking HRT. When can I expect results?

WPATH’s SOC7 has a really nice breakdown…

Thanks to the WPATH team. From their Standards of Care version 7

Thanks to the WPATH team. From their Standards of Care version 7

What if I choose to go off hormones?

You can do that. Keep in mind that many of testosterone’s effects are permanent (voice deepening, hair growth). Some of its permanent effects can be reversed by surgery or other procedures (e.g., body hair removal). If you still have your ovaries and uterus then menstruation will resume, fat will distribute, etc. Going off testosterone when you do not have ovaries can lead to loss of bone density and increased risk of a bone break. You should talk with your doctor before stopping testosterone.

My doctor says I have high testosterone levels before I even started T! What gives?

You may have polycystic ovarian syndrome (PCOS). No one knows why, but trans men are more likely to have PCOS than cis women. In PCOS, cysts form on the ovaries, resulting in a high level of testosterone, irregular periods, and sometimes masculinization (e.g., body hair). PCOS is often associated with obesity, metabolic syndrome and diabetes, which carry health risks. PCOS itself is not a danger, though it does affect fertility.

How will my hormones change after surgery?

Once your ovaries are removed, you will lose your major source of sex hormones. Your testosterone level may need to changed. Check in with your health care provider. However you will need to stay on testosterone for the rest of your life in order to preserve bone density. Some men also report needing a change in dosage after top surgery.

What can I do to minimize my risks?

Take care of yourself. Don’t use tobacco. Drink alcohol in moderation or not at all. Eat a healthy diet — not a lot of red meat, processed food or fast food but lots of fruits, vegetables and whole grains. Maintain a healthy weight – right in the Goldilocks zone, as it were. Avoid crash diets. Exercise!! Find something that works for you and do it. If that means walking on the treadmill while you play your favorite video game (like me when I started), then do it and have fun. If you have any family risk factors, be sure to tell your physician and ask them if they have any recommendations. Take care of your mental health. See a therapist if you need to. And don’t forget to practice safe sex.

What side effects should I call my doctor about?

In addition to the “usual” stuff, like high fever, chest pains, faintness, or any significant changes, there are certain symptoms you should definitely tell your doctor about. Symptoms of polycythemia include shortness of breath, headaches, dizziness, numbness or itchiness in hands and feet, and fatigue. If you develop a rash or swelling after injecting testosterone, you should also tell your physician. That may be a sign you’re allergic to the oil the testosterone is in.

Anything else?

If you do weight lifting, be careful when you start testosterone! Ramp up very slowly in the first few months at least. Testosterone causes an increase in muscle mass, but it takes longer for your tendons to strengthen as well. You may snap a tendon if you try to lift too much too soon.

Communicate with your physician! Let them know what effects you’re experiencing – the information is useful not just in your care but for everyone who may see that physician in the future.



Hormones for Trans Youth

One type of GnRH analog implant (image courtesy of

One type of GnRH analog implant (image courtesy of

Care for trans minors is more complex because minors do not have the same legal rights as adults. Parents may deny medically necessary hormones or surgeries. In many cases, that means the youth will have to wait until age 18. If two parents have legal custody and they disagree about transition, there can be a very messy legal battle. Providers are generally more hesitant to treat trans youth. This reluctance can extend to trans people just barely over age 18.

There is also a lot of fear about whether a trans youth’s gender is stable because of their age. Gender identity and expression can be fluid in young people, which can be confusing for adult caregivers. There is a lot of debate about the “proper” way to treat, or not treat, gender non-conforming and transgender youth. It’s not settled by any means, even among health care providers who do adult transgender care.

If care is needed for a transgender (or gender non-conforming) youth, seek a pediatric endocrinologist, pediatrician, or family physician with experience with transgender youth specifically.

When do I start thinking about hormones?

Hormone therapy generally does not come into play until natal puberty begins. Puberty is split into 5 stages, called Tanner Stages (link NSFW). Stage 1 is pre-puberty, Stage 5 is full adult (physical) sexual development. Stage 2 is the stage you want to be looking for, and it often happens around ages 9-11 (younger in people whose bodies have ovaries, later in people whose bodies have testes).

For people whose bodies have ovaries, Tanner Stage 2 is when breast buds begin to form. There begins to be a little development of breast tissue behind the nipple. It can feel like a little lump. The areola, the colored area around the nipple, may also begin to get larger. This usually happens long before the puberty growth spurt and menstruation.

For people whose bodies have testes, Tanner Stage 2 is when the testicles begin to grow and the skin of the scrotum begins to darken. This usually happens long before the puberty growth spurt and voice drop. They may also have breast buds for a short period.

Tanner Stage 2 is the best time to start drugs called puberty blockers, aka GnRH analogs. It’s also the ideal time to start hormone therapy if puberty blockers aren’t going to be used. Starting at Tanner Stage 2 means that none of the permanent physical effects of natal puberty will happen. However, not going through all the Tanner stages means that a trans youth will not be fertile.

What are puberty blockers?

Puberty blockers are GnRH analogs. The way they work is unusual. GnRH is gonadotropin releasing hormone, and there’s very little of it in our bodies through childhood. When puberty begins, it starts to be released in pulses. These pulses of GnRH cause luteinizing hormone (LH) and follicle-stimulating hormone (FSH) to be released. LH and FSH then trigger the release of sex hormones (estrogens, progesterone and androgens), causing the changes we see in puberty. The pulsing nature of GnRH also maintains the release of sex hormones in adulthood.

An analog is something that increases the activity of a hormone or neurotransmitter. So a GnRH analog increases the effect of GnRH. How does that delay puberty? It turns out that if GnRH is at steady high levels, there is a feedback loop that causes LH/FSH levels to drop. Low LH/FSH means low sex hormone levels. Ultimately, that means no pubertal changes for as long as the GnRH levels are that high.

Once a person goes off the GnRH analogs, they resume puberty (or resume production of sex hormones) wherever they left off. If a person who has gone through natal puberty goes on a GnRH analog, the drug will drop their estrogen/progesterone/testosterone levels. Side effects of that include hot flashes, headaches, and long-term potential loss of bone density.

GnRH's molecular structure

GnRH’s molecular structure

Why would I want to go on puberty blockers?

That’ll depend on your circumstances. Blockers are commonly used to buy time. Time for parents to become more accepting, time to find and work with a therapist, time for the school to arrange accommodations, etc.

They’re also used in conjunction with hormone therapy, and that’s where they’re also used in adults. Puberty blockers can be used to suppress natal hormones, so lower doses of hormone replacement therapy need to be used.

They can be used in place of spironolactone. They can also be used in trans men to stop menstruation prior to, or during the start of, testosterone therapy.

Are there any problems with puberty blockers?

Not particularly. They have a fairly long history of use for children with precocious puberty. GnRH agonists should not be used if a person is allergic to it or is pregnant or breast feeding.

The biggest concern is over their potential long-term effects on bone density. A sex hormone, either estrogen or testosterone, is required for maintaining and developing bone density. So there were some concerns that being deprived of a sex hormone for longer than “usual” would result in low bone density levels. To be safe while on puberty blockers it’s best to participate in weight bearing exercise and make sure there’s enough calcium and vitamin d in your diet.

Other health conditions which may affect your ability to take puberty blockers includes: cardiovascular disease, long QT syndrome, diabetes, pituitary adenoma, epilepsy, and prostate cancer.

Puberty blockers are, unfortunately, quite expensive. I’ve heard parents comment that it was “either buy a car or get puberty blockers for a few years”. Insurance companies are not likely to cover the cost of treatment either…. though there are some financial assistance programs from some manufacturers.

How are puberty blockers given? Are there different types?

Puberty blockers are given primarily as an injection or an implant, though nasal sprays exist. Injections can range from once a day to once every three months. In theory implants can last up to a year but there is anecdotal evidence that they can last longer. Leuprolide/Lupron and histrelin/Vantas are two examples of puberty blockers used in trans care.

Anything I should know when starting a puberty blocker?

It should be noted that when a puberty blocker is started there may be a spurt of puberty. Please, don’t panic. GnRH analogs do increase the effect of GnRH so it’s like it’s pulsing. The effects will go away – just hang in there for a bit.

Will I need to have blood tests or monitoring?

Depends on your physician and your financial resources. They may want to do a one-time check of LH/FSH levels (to check that you’re being suppressed enough), or they may want to do a check of LH, FSH, GnRH, a bone density scan, and more every few months. There is very little standardization so far.

Okay… I’m on a puberty blocker. Now what?

That will depend on many things, including cost. Options include (but are not limited to)…

  • Continue on puberty blockers until after age 16, then stop them and go on cross-sex hormones
  • Continue on puberty blockers until after age 16, then add cross-sex hormones on top
  • Continue on puberty blockers for a while, then do either of the above
  • Stop puberty blockers at any point and resume natal puberty, then transition at a later date with cross-sex hormones
  • Stop puberty blockers, resume natal puberty, choose not to transition

Why age 16?

It started in the Netherlands, where a lot of trans youth protocols were pioneered. That’s the standard from those protocols, and it’s carried over into the Endocrine Society guidelines. Many physicians and organizations do follow that age requirement, though there is a growing awareness that starting puberty at age 16 is unnecessarily stressful.

So I don’t have to go through natal puberty?

Not necessarily. A person could go from Tanner stage 2 directly to hormones. Or a person could go from Tanner stage 2 to puberty blockers to hormones.

CC BY-SA 2.0 - flickr user FurryscalyWhat about biological kids and fertility?

This is a huge question for parents of trans youth. They sometimes worry that by allowing their young person to transition at a young age they’re depriving them of biological children.

In order to have your own biological children, you must go through all of natal puberty, all the way to Tanner stage 5. If you have not gone through natal puberty, then your testes/ovaries never got the capacity for reproducing. With today’s medical technology, genetic children would not be possible. Trans youth can (and likely do) choose to go through natal puberty solely for the purpose of biological children, but I have heard that it is immensely stressful. There is some recent movement in the area of harvesting undeveloped ovaries/testes for future fertility. This research, to my knowledge, is being done primarily with children with cancer. It’s very much in its infancy though and will not be commercially available for years.

If you have had orchiectomy (removal of testes), oophorectomy (removal of ovaries), or any other medical procedure/drug that would affect your ability to reproduce, then you would not be able to have genetic children (with today’s technology).

If you have gone through natal puberty, or have functioning gonads (testes/ovaries), it gets more complicated. The best way to ensure children is to either have them before hormone therapy or to store sperm/eggs/zygotes. If you have started hormone therapy then you may or may not be able to have children. Consult your physician. There are many, many factors your physician would consider, including: how long you’ve been on hormones, your hormone dosage, medical conditions affecting your ovaries or testes (e.g., polycystic ovarian syndrome), your other medical conditions. Long-term hormone therapy can cause sterility.

Having biological children while on hormones is not a good idea (e.g., testosterone causes birth defects) and may not even be possible (e.g., trans women sperm counts going very low). To become pregnant, or to cause a pregnancy, you would need to go off hormones for a significant period of time. The reversible effects of hormone therapy would begin to reverse and could aggravate gender dysphoria.

Please remember also that children do not have to be genetically related to their parents. A trans person could be parent to a cis partner who carries the child. A couple could employ a donor mother who carries the child. Adoption and fostering are hugely valuable. There are so, so many kids who need loving parents. A trans-friendly family could be a boon to a foster child who is a gender/sexual minority. There are so many more options than biology. Explore them!


A sample flowchart for fertility possibilities for trans youth

What can I do if my parents won’t let me start hormones or puberty blockers?!

First: hang in there. Take care of yourself. Eat well and exercise. Develop good coping strategies and a network of friends and allies. If you have the option of therapy, use it. Know that, worst comes to worst, at 18 you will be a legal adult you can make your own medical decisions.

Keep talking with them. Direct them to resources like Gender Spectrum and PFLAG, or books like The Transgender Child and Transitions of the Heart.

If you fear for your physical or emotional safety, it’s time to get outside help. Start by talking with an adult you trust — a teacher, therapist, or physician. Consider reaching out to your local diversity center for help. If you need to, physically remove yourself from the unsafe situation.

Lastly, consider seeking legal advice. There may be grounds for becoming an emancipated minor. There may be grounds for calling child protective services if they are denying you medically-necessary care.




Surgery waiting room - CC BY-ND 2.0 - flickr user paulswansen

Surgery waiting room

Ah, surgery. Certainly surgery is what the average cisgender person thinks of when they think of transition. It’s certainly important (and expensive), but not the be all and end all of transition.

What kinds of surgery are available for trans people?

That depends on your anatomy. For people who are feminizing (e.g., trans women), options include:

  • Vaginoplasty. Literally means “vagina molding”. This is the “sex reassignment surgery” commonly referred to by the media. A vagina is created, commonly using penile tissue. It can be done as 1 surgery or 2. Can include the creation of labia (labiaplasty). If testes are still present they are removed.
  • Orchiectomy/orchidectomy (“orchie”): removal of the testes only. A much smaller procedure than vaginoplasty. Vaginoplasty can be done after an orchie, but make sure you let your orchie surgeon know that’s your plan – the technique can differ. After an orchie, sex hormone supplementation may be necessary to maintain bone health.
  • Breast augmentation/implants. For feminine people who aren’t happy with the size of their breasts at full growth, this is an option.
  • Chondrolaryngoplasty: Shaving of the Adam’s apple.
  • Voice surgery: Vocal chords can be shaved to raise the voice. Unusual and typically considered risky.
  • Facial feminization surgery (FFS): A complex combination of facial modification, depending on need. It can involve shaving bone off the brow ridge, jaw line, and nose.
  • Other plastic surgeries: including liposuction

For people who are masculinizing (e.g., trans men), options include:

  • Top surgery: removal of most of the breast tissue and formation of a masculine chest. Not the same thing as mastectomy. Various techniques exist, all with the same aim.
  • Hysterectomy/oophorectomy: removal of the uterus, fallopian tubes, ovaries, and cervix. Permanently ends menstruation. Sex hormone supplementation may be necessary to maintain bone health. Can be a first step to genital surgery.
  • Facial masculinization surgery. Not common, but I’ve seen it around the ‘net. Implants can be added to the brow ridge, jaw and/or nose to masculinize the face.
  • Metoidioplasty (“meta”): One of the genital surgeries. Uses only existing genital tissue, “releasing” the clitoris/penis from surrounding tissue and adjusting its position so it hangs in the right place for a penis. Can, and often does, include creation of a scrotum (scrotoplasty), routing the urethra through the penis (urethroplasty), and testicular implants. A phalloplasty can be done at a later date. With a meta, the penis can become erect on its own.
  • Phalloplasty: The other genital surgery. Uses tissue from elsewhere in the body — tissue from the forearm is common, as is part of the latissimus dorsi muscle. Usually 3-4 surgeries. Can include creation of a scrotum (scrotoplasty), routing the urethra through the penis (urethroplasty), penile implants to allow erection, and testicular implants. Erogenous sensation is preserved by weaving the clitoris into the penis and/or scrotum.
  • Scrotoplasty: Creation of a scrotum. often a component of metoidioplasty or phalloplasty. The scrotum is usually made from the outer labia (labia majora). A vaginectomy is often involved here.
  • Vaginectomy: Removal of the vagina.
  • Urethroplasty: Routing the urethra through the penis. This involves using other tissue to extend the urethra. The labia majora (inner labia) are sometimes used.
  • Other plastic surgeries can be done to improve aesthetic appearance.

How can I get surgery? Pre-requisites?

Depends on the surgery, surgeon, and the laws where you live. Many, but not all, surgeons follow WPATH’s recommendations, which I paraphrase here:

  • For top/chest/breast surgeries, 1 letter from a mental health care provider. Hormone therapy generally not a pre-requisite for top surgery for trans men. For breast augmentation for trans women, 1-3 years on hormones is highly recommended if not required.
  • For bottom/genital surgeries, 2 letters from mental health care providers. 1 year of hormone therapy and being out of the closet, living as your gender not as your sex, is required.
  • Surgeries performed for a reason other than transgender (e.g., hysterectomy/oophorectomy for cancer) do not require any letters.
  • Many surgeries (especially bottom surgeries) require you to be the “age of majority” in your country. In the United States, that’s age 18. Some surgeons, however, do not follow that recommendation and do perform surgeries on younger people. More letters or visits with the surgeon may be needed for people under the age of majority in their country.

Some countries or clinics require you to work within their system. Others allow you to surgeon-shop, or even require you to do your own foot work. I’d generally start this whole process by asking your primary care physician and/or surgeons about local requirements.

A surgeon may also request letters from your primary care provider verifying your health history, current health status, and readiness. Make sure you consult with your surgeon early so you get all your paperwork in order!

Will my insurance cover it?

Insurance is more likely to cover an orchie, hysterectomy/oophorectomy or top surgery. They are less likely to cover any other surgeries. Genital surgeries can be deemed “cosmetic” or “optional” by insurance companies. Your best bet is to ask beforehand. One discreet way of asking might be to ask to see a list of covered procedures.

Your physician may also be able to advocate for you, arguing that the surgery is medically necessary and thus not cosmetic. Definitely keep your primary care provider in the loop and ask them for help if you run into trouble.

What kind of cost am I looking at?

Depends on the surgery and where you get it…but no matter what it’s going to be thousands of dollars. Cost may go up if you have complications, or down if you have a very simple case. For accurate numbers your best bet is to surgeon shop and ask!

Want some really rough estimates? Okay! The more “simple” surgeries like orchiectomies, hysterectomy/oophorecotmy, top surgeries, and the simple versions of metoidioplasty, can be anywhere from $2,000 to $10,000. Facial feminization, complex metoidioplasty, and vaginoplasties could be $10,000 to $20,000 or higher. Phalloplasty is generally the most expensive, and I’ve seen it quoted anywhere from $40,000 to $100,000.

How can I afford it? My insurance won’t cover surgery!

First: I am so sorry! Besides saving pennies, a private or medical loan may be possible. Some surgeons allow payment plans too. And some people are now fundraising for their surgeries through the internet. Any of those might be an option for you.

How can I get the best results possible?

Be as healthy as you can before surgery. Exercise is important – the more muscle tone you have, the faster you’ll be able to recover. Eating well can make sure that you have the nutrients your body needs to recover. Not using tobacco speeds up your healing time. Avoid other drugs too, as your physician advises. Having a stable weight can maintain your good results. If you’re able to lose extra weight in the years before surgery, that helps recovery. Control any health conditions you have (e.g., diabetes).

Choosing your surgeon carefully is also very important. Look at their results, ask to speak with people who have had the surgery. Think carefully about your own needs and make sure that your chosen surgery/surgeon can meet them.

Lastly, follow all pre- and post-operative instructions. If they say “no aspirin for 3 weeks” – do it!

What could lead a surgeon to decline operating on me?

Every surgeon has their own criteria. However, being overweight or obese, using tobacco, and the presence of certain health conditions may lead a surgeon to conclude that surgery is too risky for you. Health conditions may include uncontrolled diabetes, cardiovascular or respiratory problems.

No surgeon should refuse on the grounds that you’re “not masculine/feminine enough”.

I’ve heard that bottom surgery for trans men doesn’t give good results. Is that true?

NO! Bottom surgery, both metoidioplasty and phalloplasty, can give very very good results. For wonderful first-hand accounts of results, check out Hung Jury.

For bottom surgeries, what about erogenous (sex) sensation?

Surgeons do not simply cut out whole clusters of nerves. Bottom surgery is complex, and care is taken to preserve as much sexual tissue as possible. The vast majority of people who have had bottom surgery have as much of a sex life as they want, and are happy with their results. The old sexual tissue is often “woven” into the new structures, so orgasm is possible. Orgasm itself may feel different too, as some trans people have reported.

For vaginoplasties, extra lubrication may be needed but penetration is often possible. For metoidioplasties, erection is possible as is penetration (though some creativity in angles may be required). For phalloplasty, a penile implant allows for erection.

However, all surgeries do cause some nerve damage. That’s just going to happen when cuts are made in skin and tissue. Sometimes sensation returns — sometimes it doesn’t. Care is taken to try to avoid the worst, but it is possible that some sensation will be damaged. Your surgeon should go over all the risks of the surgery with you beforehand. Consider them carefully.

Can I have bottom surgery if I never went through natal puberty?

Very likely! There’s some concern that trans women who never went through puberty may not have enough tissue growth to allow for a deep vagina, but surgeons report success in doing such surgeries. Don’t be shy – call up a surgeon and see what they say.

How can I reduce scarring?

Scars are going to happen, and the degree of scars will depend on your surgeon, your body, and the complications you have. More complications will likely mean more scars. And everyone scars differently. Some scar very easily. Others do not.

The single more important thing you can do is to follow all post-operative instructions! Call your surgeon if you see signs of infection. And ask your surgeon or physician about over-the-counter scar-reduction products before you use them. Some very wide scars can be reduced surgically. But please, consult your primary care provider first.

What new surgical advances can I expect to see in the future?

The thing everyone is waiting for is bioengineered genitals and gonads. Sadly, that is many many years away – I’d guess 20+ years.

In the short-term, there is focus on improving the current techniques. Lubrication for vaginoplasties, a phalloplasty with fewer stages, and improvements in urethroplasty are all areas of interest.

What about surgery overseas?

It’s an option, and it may be cheaper than pursuing surgery in the United States. Thailand is popular for trans women, Serbia for trans men. However, keep in mind that there may be language issues… and if problems come up once you’re back in the States, it’s not exactly easy to hop on over to see your surgeon. Not all surgeons will even take patients from outside the country (e.g., some Canadian surgeons won’t treat non-Canadians).

Choose your surgeon even more carefully when looking outside your country. Listen to the community and former patients. Ask to hear experiences and see results. There are unscrupulous surgeons out there and undesired results do happen, Corrective surgery is expensive and doesn’t always fix the damage. Remember: it’s your body, and it the body you get to live with for the rest of your life. Choose carefully and well.

What if I don’t want surgery?

Then don’t have it. Don’t do anything you don’t want to do! It’s your life and your body – take control, choose what you want and do not want to do, and go enjoy yourself.




Not the orchie you're looking for - CC BY 2.0 - flickr user livepine

Not the orchie you’re looking for…

Orchiectomy/orchidectomy, also known as an “orchie”, is the surgical removal of the testicles. If both testicles are removed, it’s a bilateral orchiectomy.

Why would I want an orchiectomy?

With an orchiectomy, anti-androgens are usually no longer needed. Some may choose to stay on anti-androgens at a lower dose. Estrogen doses may also be lowered after an orchiectomy.

While everyone has their own, deeply personal reasons for choosing one surgery over another, there are some potential common threads, including:

  • Health concerns. For someone who cannot be on an anti-androgen, or has a bad reaction to an anti-androgen, or has health conditions that make HRT risky, an orchiectomy may make hormonal transition safer.
  • Money. While orchiectomy costs somewhere around $4,000, it may be more cost effective in the long run to get an orchie. In my area at the time of writing this (~2014), without insurance an orchiectomy is about the same cost as 10 years of spironolactone.
  • Permanent pregnancy prevention (try saying that 5 times fast!). While hormones do have the potential for permanent infertility, an orchiectomy is a much surer thing.
  • Dysphoria. Some may be distressed by having testes but have no desire for a vaginoplasty. An orchiectomy may be the only genital surgery they desire or need. Some may also have no desire for penetrative vaginal sex, and thus no desire for a vagina.
  • Aversion to higher-risk surgeries. An orchiectomy is generally safer and less painful than a vaginoplasty, which may be a factor in deciding to have an orchie.

Are orchiectomies done on cisgender people?

Yes. It’s a fairly unusual procedure, though. Most commonly an orchie is performed for testicular or prostate cancer.

Would an orchiectomy keep me from getting vaginoplasty?

Very likely not. It used to be thought that an orchiectomy could affect vaginoplasty results. The scrotum can shrink after an orchid, so there might be less tissue to use in surgery. However surgeons now say that’s not a problem.

What you do want to do, though, is talk with your various surgeons and physicians. There are different ways to do orchiectomy. I have heard surgeons comment that some methods are better for future vaginoplasty than others. If possible, tell your orchiectomy surgeon whether future vaginoplasty is a consideration and refer him/her to your potential surgeons for consultation. You may also choose a surgeon who does both orchiectomy and vaginoplasty to do your orchiectomy.

Can you tell me more about the surgery? Does it require full anesthesia? How long would I be in the hospital? What kind of recovery time am I looking at?

All of those factors will vary depending on the surgeon. Here are some generalities to give you an idea. Orchiectomy can be done under full anesthesia, or only under a light sedation. You will likely be able to leave the hospital the same day. Some surgeons ask that you stay in the area for 3 days after. You may be able to return to work in 3-5 days. Pain is reported to be “minimal.”

As with all surgeries, there will be some preparation required. You’ll need to meet with your surgeon for a consultation beforehand. Many medications, including estrogen, aspirin, and other blood thinners will have to be stopped for a certain period before the surgery.

What are the possible risks of an orchiectomy?

Orchiectomies are relatively low-risk for surgery. The major risks are infection, excessive bleeding, and bad reactions to medications given in the hospital. Your surgeon should go over all possible risks of surgery with you before you give your consent to surgery.

How will an orchiectomy affect my long-term health?

Orchiectomy removes the majority of your body’s sex hormones. Sex hormones help to maintain bone density, among other things. Without testes, your sex hormone levels will be below that of a post-menopausal cis woman. To help prevent osteoporosis you may need to be on hormone replacement for the rest of your life. Different physicians have different philosophies about life-long HRT, though, so your mileage will vary.

Removal of the testes greatly reduces any chance of testicular cancer. The drop in testosterone may also help prevent prostate cancer. In any case, with that drop in testosterone your prostate will shrink. There may be sexual side effects, similar to the effects of anti-androgens. Sex drive may go down, and your sexuality may feel different. Erections may be more difficult. Also remember that removing the testicles makes you permanently sterile. Unless you have sperm stored or have children already, you will be unable to have genetic children.

More information?

I am not a surgeon. I pulled a lot of my information from various websites, including the websites of surgeons. Resources and references include….



Chest Reconstruction

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Top surgery (chest reconstruction) may be the single most important surgery for trans men.

Why would I want top surgery?

Often simply called “top surgery”, chest reconstruction is a surgery where breast tissue is removed and a more masculine, flat chest is produced. There are functional benefits in addition to helping reduce dysphoria.

  • Binder no longer required. Before top surgery, a binder is usually needed to flatten breasts. Binders can make exercise difficult and cause health problems. With top surgery, the binder is no longer needed. That removes all the problems of a binder!
  • Increased ability to be recognized as male. With healed top surgery, one could walk around topless like any other guy. There is more mobility in male spaces (especially locker rooms). Top surgery, in other words, helps make you safer in a potentially hostile world.
  • Dysphoria. Having a masculine chest may be very important for psychological health.
  • Other benefits may include a reduction in back pain if you are large-chested.

Is top surgery different from a mastectomy or breast reduction?

Yes! A mastectomy just removes breast tissue. It does not create a masculine chest. A breast reduction removes some breast tissue, but leaves the feminine breast shape intact. Neither of these would produce a masculine chest. While they may be options for some trans people, they’re not usually chosen by trans men today.

Is chest reconstruction done on cisgender people?

Not exactly. Gynecomastia (development of breast tissue in cis men) may be treated similarly, but the techniques may differ. One technique for gynecomastia I’ve seen is liposuction only. Liposuction only would not be enough for many trans men, as it removes fat only but not breast tissue.

I’ve heard there are different techniques. What are they?

The most common techniques are the keyhole method and the double incision method.

  • Keyhole: Keyhole, or peri-areolar, can only be done on small breasts (somewhere around an A cup, where there is little to no “extra” tissue). In this technique, a small cut is make on the edge of the areola and the breast tissue is removed through that. Thus, a “keyhole”. The nipple is not moved and sensation likely remains intact.
  • Double Incision: The double-incision method is much more common. The nipples and areolae are temporarily removed, and a cut is made under the breast tissue. The breast tissue is removed through that lower cut. The nipples and areolae are grafted on once the chest is shaped. Sensation is affected in this technique.
  • A few surgeons perform an anchor technique. This is similar to the double incision, but the nipples are left connected. This results in better sensation and possibly better placement, with an inverted T scar pattern.

Generally speaking, the keyhole method helps to save nipple sensitivity and reduce scarring, but can only be done on a limited number of people and may not produce the most aesthetic result. In the keyhole, the nipple is not moved so it may be lower/higher than is typically seen on a masculine chest. The double incision method, on the other hand, can be done on many more people and allows customization of the nipple position.

For many, double incision or anchor are the only choice. However, it’s good to know your options. In addition, each surgeon has their own tweaks to each basic procedure – so do ask them detailed questions!

Can you tell me more about the surgery? Does it require full anesthesia? How long would I be in the hospital? What kind of recovery time am I looking at?

Full anesthesia is definitely involved in top surgery. Most can return home the same day. You will probably go home (or to wherever you’re staying for initial recovery) with surgical drains. These are tubes that go into your tissue to help drain away excess liquid into a little container that gets emptied. Initial recovery time may be about a week.

It will take longer for the cuts to fully heal. They may be red for a few months after. You may also have areas that are numb after surgery. Sensation may or may not return over the next few years (nerves grow slowly!). You may need to continue to wear a binder for the first week to month to assist healing. While healing, your movement may be restricted. You will also need to refrain from lifting objects above a certain weight for a period of time. Your surgeon will advise you on the specifics, and you should follow their recommendations!

What are the possible risks of top surgery?

The usual risks with surgery apply here: adverse drug reactions, bleeding, infection and the like. Permanent loss/reduction in sensation may occur, as with many surgeries.

Your aesthetic result may also not please you – the nipples may not be placed quite right, or there may be puckering or sagginess in odd places. Wait until you’re fully healed before speaking with your surgeon about a revision.

With the double-incision method there is the risk that the nipple grafts will not hold. The tissue may die. That tissue can never be recovered, but other tissue can be used to make nipples and the skin surrounding them can be colored (medical tattooing) to look like areolae.

What about scars?

You will have scars from top surgery. Period. The keyhole method results in a much smaller scar, but it will still be there. A double-incision surgery results in scars under the chest/pecs and scars at the end of the areolae.

How much you scar will be unique to you. You can guess based on past scarring, but there is always the risk that these scars will be particularly noticeable. They may be raised or discolored. Be prepared for the possibility. Scar revision surgeries may be possible.

My recommended scar strategy? Spend some of your recovery/prep time making a really awesome story. Maybe involving a bear or a daring rescue!

How will top surgery affect my long-term health?

Because top surgery does not remove gonads, it has relatively few long-term health effects compared to other trans-related surgeries. As with all surgery, it can be immensely helpful for combating gender dysphoria and may improve your mental health.

I’ve had top surgery. Does this mean I’m no longer at risk for breast cancer?

No! Top surgery does not remove all the breast tissue. In fact, some surgeons use breast tissue to form a masculine shape. There is breast tissue even up into the armpits. Please continue screenings as your physician suggests, especially if you are at higher risk.

Would I be able to breast feed a child after top surgery?

Possibly. Definitely speak with your surgeon about it, but I know of at least one case where a trans man was able to breast feed after having a child.

More information?

I am not a surgeon, nor an expert on surgeries! Check out some of these other resources and surgeon websites for more information:




Often known as “the surgery” by the media, genital surgery for trans women has come a long way since 1930.

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Suggestive flower is suggestive

What exactly is vaginoplasty? Labiaplasty? Why different terms?

Vaginoplasty specifically refers to the creation or modification of a vagina. Labiaplasty is the creation or modification of the labia. They are sometimes done in the same surgery. Sometimes they are separate surgeries. The terms are sometimes used for surgeries for cis women too – often to reduce the size of the inner labia to “smooth out” the appearance. For simplicity’s sake, for the rest of this FAQ I’ll use the term “vaginoplasty” to refer to the whole of genital surgery for trans women.

What kinds of vaginoplasty are available?

There are two basic kinds: penile inversion and colon graft. Penile inversion takes skin from the penis and uses it to create the vagina. The skin of the scrotum is used to create outer labia. The nerves and part of the head of the penis are used to make the clitoris. Some variations include:

  • Using tissue from the urethra to create the lining on the inside of the labia. This may help to produce a pinkish color to the area and additional lubrication.
  • Performing a second surgery to refine the labia. This may improve the appearance of the labia.
  • Scrotal tissue may be used to line the vagina. Naturally, this tissue would need to have all hair removed by electrolysis or laser therapy beforehand.
  • Using tissue from the inside of the cheek to line some portion of the vagina. This may provide additional lubrication.

Colon graft is not as common, but still practiced today outside the United States. This uses tissue from the colon to line the vagina. Many of the other techniques involved are the same. Colon tissue provides copious lubrication, but may also have odor or unusual color. It’s also prone to certain kinds of narrowing.

Why would I want vaginoplasty?

Everyone is different, but these are factors I have heard…

  • Reduction of dysphoria, whether you desire simply not to have a penis or desire to have a vagina.
  • No more need to “tuck”, which can be uncomfortable and encourage yeast infections. No more bulge to hide!
  • Safety. No more fear of being accidentally “outed” by a straying hand or eye and assaulted because of it.
  • Better access to women-only spaces, such as changing rooms and bathrooms. Also, no staring in clothing-optional spaces such as hot springs!
  • Being better able to sit down to pee
  • Having vaginal penetration during sex

Can you tell me more about the surgery? Does it require full anesthesia? How long would I be in the hospital? What kind of recovery time am I looking at?

Vaginoplasty is major surgery. It absolutely requires full anesthesia. Surgery length depends on the type of surgery and your surgeon. Expect to be in the hospital for several days, and staying in the area for at least a week.

Full recovery will take months. You may be able to return to a desk job in two weeks. You may be able to return to more strenuous activity in eight weeks. This depends on your surgeon of course. As I said, this is major surgery.

Your surgeon and their staff will instruct and assist you in specific aftercare: Drains, antibiotic ointments, cotton packing/padding, hygiene, and so on.

Naturally you’ll need to abstain from sex for a period of time. Your surgeon will give you thorough instructions. If s/he omits an activity you’re interested in, please ask before trying!

A set of dilators from Soul Source

A set of dilators from Soul Source

Tell me about dilation!

The “neo”-vagina needs to heal. The body’s natural response to “wounds” is to close them up. Your body responds to your new vagina as if it’s a wound and tries to close it up. A dilator is a plastic or glass rod that is inserted into the vagina to hold it open and stretch out the tissue, keeping it open. Some dilators even come in pretty colors! You can think of it like a new piercing – a new piercing will close up without something in it to keep it open. Unlike a piercing, a dilator is not used constantly.

Dilation needs to be done multiple times a day at first. Your surgeon will instruct you in their use and make sure you’re using them correctly. Over time you will be able to go down to once a day. Once you’ve fully healed, dilation can be once a week or even less often.

If by any chance you lose depth, dilation may be a possible way to regain it. It’s been used to increase depth in cis women who are born with short vaginas. But it takes time, and please do consult your physician. Surgery can also be performed to increase depth.

Penetrative sex can help keep the vagina open, but not as well as a dilator. Don’t replace dilation with penetrative sex unless your physician(s) tell you it’s okay!

What are the possible risks?

As with any major surgery, vaginoplasty carries risks that could affect your long-term health. In addition to the risks of anesthesia, vaginoplasty carries the following health risks:

  • Urinary problems, including urinary stricture (narrowing of the opening of the urethra)
  • Fistula, or a hole between the vagina and rectum. This requires follow-up procedures and may require the complete closure of the vagina to allow for healing.
  • Blood clots. The risk of blood clots is reduced by stopping hormones before surgery, but the risk is still there. A blood clot can, rarely, be fatal.
  • Infection and death of tissue
  • Blood loss leading to a transfusion

Among the more “minor” problems are…

  • Loss of sensation or a change in sensation. This is a major surgery in which nerves are cut, simply because that’s the nature of surgery. Nerves can and do regrow, but they don’t always regrow “right”. You may lose sensation or sensations may be permanently altered. Surgeons do their best to prevent nerve damage.
  • Scarring. Scars are usually minor and/or hidden by hair, but scars do occasionally keep their color or stay raised.

Be prepared to face these risks. They are generally rare, but they do happen.

How deep will my vagina be? How sensitive with the clitoris be? Will I be able to orgasm? Will I be able to have sex?

Vaginas made via vaginoplasty are generally about as deep as a cis vagina: anywhere from 5-6 inches. Some surgeons offer a revision surgery which can be used to deepen a vagina if you’re not happy. Modern vaginoplasty techniques are designed to keep sensitivity, so your clitoris will likely be sensitive if all goes well.

Orgasm and penetrative sex are usually achievable. Post-op women generally report that their sexual experiences feel different, but I can’t comment on “how”. Keep in mind that not all cis women can orgasm, so it makes sense that not all trans women can orgasm. Enjoy your experiences, whether they involve orgasm or penetration or not!

Will the fact that I’m circumcised/uncircumcised matter?

Generally speaking, no. Don’t stress about it.

Can I have vaginoplasty if I never went through natal puberty?

Yes! And surgeons are reporting satisfactory depth for people using the penile inversion technique. A skin graft from elsewhere in the body might be necessary for depth, but surgeons are reporting success without it.

It's the wrong lube, Gromit!

It’s the wrong lube, Gromit!

How is a trans vagina different from a cis vagina? What about lubrication?

Again, it does depend on the surgeon and the technique. For women who had a penile inversion, in general the vagina is less stretchy and more likely to tear and/or bleed. Gentleness and avoidance of sharp objects is advised.

I highly recommend you check out resources like the Wall of Vagina if you’re concerned about final appearance looking “normal”. Cis women vary enormously. Chances are, you’ll fit right in. Because of that natural variation, I’ve heard reports of OB/GYNs unable to tell the difference.

Believe it or not, the vagina of a post-op women does lubricate. The fluid itself is thought to be a result of glands like the prostate which remain. Not all women find that it’s sufficient by itself for vigorous penetrative sex, though. Don’t be afraid to use lube – and do remember to have fun! If your lubrication is still too little for comfort, speak with your physician.

Will vaginoplasty affect my long-term health? Pap smears?

Aside from the risks of surgery, the biggest effect to long-term health is the removal of the testes. For those risks, check out the section on orchiectomy.

Trans women after vaginoplasty do NOT need a pap smear. A pap smear is a test where a sample of cervical cells are taken. Those cells are stained and looked at under the microscope to look for cancer. A vaginoplasty will not give you a cervix. You are not at risk for cervical cancer and do not need to be screened for it.

However, a “neo” vagina can get torn or for some other reason need to be medically examined. This is part of why it’s important to have a primary care physician you’re comfortable with!

Since you would now have a vagina, there is some maintenance that vaginas tend to need. Vaginas are dynamic systems. Your smell, taste and sense of touch may change at different times. What you eat, the underwear you wear, and the products you use can all affect your vagina. Avoid heavily scented products. Plain cotton underwear is likely your best starting place. Do not douche. Get to know your vagina and labia so that you can alert a physician if something changes. Signs that you may need to consult a physician include: discharge that is foul smelling, discharge that is yellow or green in color, copious discharge, pain or burning with urination, bleeding, skin ulcers, skin infections, and skin discolorations.

Of note: Just like cis women, you will be at higher risk for urinary infections than when you had a penis. To prevent UTIs, drink plenty of water, wipe front to back when using the toilet, and consider urinating before/after penetrative sex. If you have frequent infections, talk with a physician about medications that can help prevent infections.

You will still be vulnerable to sexually transmitted infections. Because the post-op vagina is relatively easy to tear, make sure to use barriers when having sex to prevent infections like HIV.

Additionally, don’t forget that the vagina is made of skin. Like any skin, it can develop skin cancers. Alert your physician if you see a discoloration or bump that is growing, changing, or simply not going away.

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If you have it, ask your doctor if it needs checked!

Will the prostate be removed?

No. Depending on what your physician says, you may still need prostate screenings. Because the prostate remains, there is still a theoretical risk of prostate cancer.

Some women report that it’s easier to feel the prostate through the vagina than through the rectum. So if you enjoy prostate stimulation, try it that way!


You will need to learn to pee all over again. Such fun. The shower is a great place to practice, but expect to have some… interesting urinary experiences. Also note that your urethra will be shorter after vaginoplasty, so you may be more prone to urinary tract infections. So hydrate well, and seek medical care if you develop burning during urination that doesn’t go away or foul-smelling urine.

Are there any health conditions that mean I can’t get it?

I do not know of any absolute contraindications. Even if you do not have a penis, tissue from other areas can be used to create a vagina.

However, some surgeons may have their own requirements like being a certain BMI. There are conditions, like diabetes, heart disease, or infection that need to be controlled before surgery can be attempted.

Anything else I should know?

Your mileage will vary. It depends on your body, how you take care of yourself pre and post-op, and your surgeon. Remember to do your own research – this is just a starting point! Your surgeon should have results photos s/he can share with you. Talk with other women about their experiences as you make your decision.

Resources I should check out?




Hysterectomy, oophorectomy, vaginectomy

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One of the many patent medicines, for the “treatment” of hysteria, which was once thought to be the uterus wandering about the body.

For some trans men the very fact that he has ovaries, uretus, cervix and vagina is a source of dysphoria. For trans men who aren’t ready or able to have genital surgery (i.e., metoidioplasty or phalloplasty), there are options to remove the gonads: hysterectomies, oophorectomies, and vaginectomies.

That’s a lot of -ectomies. What exactly are you talking about?

Let’s go through the options one by one…

  • A hysterectomy is the removal of the uterus, and only the uterus. A hysterectomy may or may not involve the removal of the cervix.
  • An oophorectomy is the removal of an ovary. A bilateral oophorectomy is the removal of both ovaries. A bilateral salpingo-oophorectomy is the removal of both ovaries and both fallopian tubes.
  • A vaginectomy is the removal of the vagina. If a cervix was still present, it would also be removed.

So why get one of these surgeries?

Reasons are of course very personal. Reasons also vary depending on which surgery is involved, but some men have cited the following:

  • Reduction of dysphoria. For some men, just knowing that a uterus and ovaries are present is distressing. Removal can reduce that distress
  • Eliminating the need for pelvic examinations and pap smears (for paps, only if the cervix is removed)
  • Eliminating the risk for some reproductive cancers, including ovarian cancer, cancer of the fallopian tubes, endometrial cancer, and cervical cancer
  • No more menstruation. Ever. Woohoo!

Cis women get these surgeries too, right?

Yup. They can be done for conditions as benign as polycystic ovarian syndrome or fibroids, or for conditions as potentially deadly as cancer. Hysterectomies and oophorectomies are far more common than vaginectomies. However, vaginectomies can be done for cis women for vaginal cancer. Yes, vaginal cancer exists.

Because these aren’t trans-specific surgeries, finding a surgeon and getting insurance coverage isn’t as difficult as it is for a meta or phallo. It gets even easier if you have a condition (like fibroids) where surgery is recommended in cis women. Ask your primary care provider for ways you can get the surgery covered. Also note that while many surgeons do perform these, it might be difficult to find one who will treat you in a way that affirms your gender. Be ready to call in others to support you.

Can these surgeries all be done at once?

Some of them, definitely. So much so that there’s a medical acronym: TAHBSO. Yes, it totally looks like the word “tabasco”. It’s one of my favorite acronyms. TAHBSO stands for Total Abdominal Hysterectomy and Bilateral Salpingo-Oophorectomy. It’s the removal of the uterus, oviducts/fallopian tubes, and ovaries all at once through a bigcut in the abdomen. However, most hysterectomies/oophorectomies today are done laparoscopically — through several little cuts in the abdomen instead of one big one.

I don’t know for sure whether a vaginectomy could be performed at the same time. As your potential surgeon.

What variations in techniques are there?

The biggest variation is in where and how the cuts are made to remove the organs. Vaginectomy is simple – it’s done vaginally.

But hysterectomies and oophorectomies vary. The oldest technique for those is the abdominal incision – a horizontal or vertical cut is made on the abdomen. This technique is the most traumatic for the body, leaves a scar, and has a longer recovery time.

Two other techniques for hysterectomy and oophorectomy have emerged fairly recently. Laparoscopic surgery is where multiple small cuts are made, and the surgery is performed through those cuts with long tubes with cameras and grasping ends. Lastly, sometimes a hysterectomy can be performed through the vagina, leaving no outward scar at all.

You should discuss the pros/cons of each technique with your potential surgeon to determine which is best for you. A second opinion is important here too.

What should I do if my surgeon says s/he isn’t willing to do a specific technique for me?

Be aware that not all surgeons use all techniques. Some simply have more experience with one over the other. They may well say (or be thinking): “I don’t have a lot of experience doing vaginal hysterectomies, and I don’t want to risk harm. So if you have your hysterectomy with me I want to use the technique I’m best at to minimize your risks.”

Or there could easily be other reasons. Ask your surgeon why!

Can you tell me more about the surgeries? Do they require full anesthesia? How long would I be in the hospital? What kind of recovery time am I looking at?

These surgeries are all “major” surgery, meaning the main body cavity is penetrated. They absolutely will be done under general anesthesia (would you really want to be conscious through that?).

Recovery time will vary depending on what you have done, and how it is performed. It can be as little as two weeks (vaginal hysterectomy) to 6-8 weeks (TAHBSO). Unless you have a complication, even for a TAHBSO you probably won’t spend more than a few days at the most in the hospital.

What are the possible risks?

Risks are mostly the ones associated with any major surgery, including infection, a bad reaction to anesthesia, and the risk of a blood clot. Remember: any surgery can end up resulting in death – the chances may be very small, but still present. There’s also the chance that some of the organs nearby may be accidentally nicked or damaged. Your surgeon will do their best to avoid such damage but it’s a possibility.

If you use your vagina for sex, surgery may change some of your sexual responses. Some cis women report pain with intercourse after a hysterectomy, for example.

Your surgeon will go through all the possible risks with you.

What are the possible long-term health effects?

Depends on what was removed.

If you had an oophorectomy, your own biggest source of sex hormones will be gone. You’ll still have a tiny amount from your adrenal glands but not much. This makes it super important to stay on a sex hormone to prevent osteoporosis. There may be other changes too, even if you’re regular with your testosterone. Check in with the trans male communities to see what else they’ve noticed.

Removal of your ovaries makes you permanently infertile. If having genetic children is important to you, either have them before an oophorectomy or store your eggs.

Would these surgeries affect my future ability to have a metoidoplasty or phalloplasty?

They shouldn’t. Some or all of these surgeries may even be the first step in a meta or phallo!

Any health conditions that mean I can’t get any of these surgeries?

As far as I know, only the health conditions which would prevent anyone from having any surgery. That includes obesity, heart disease, lung disease, and end stage liver disease. As always, to maximize your recovery you’ll want to quit tobacco use and get as fit as you can before your surgery.

Any other thoughts?

As always, communicate with your primary health care provider. He or she will be best able to help you figure out whether a hysterectomy, oophorectomy, or vaginectomy is right for you.


Facial Feminization Surgeries


Comparison of male and female skulls

Comparison of male and female skull foreheads

Facial feminization surgery (FFS) is broad term used to refer to many plastic surgeries which modify the face, head and scalp with the aim of feminization. For this article, I’m referring heavily to the work of Dr. Douglas Ousterhout, who literally wrote the book on FFS. Many thanks to him and his staff for their great work. If you want to get into the nitty gritty on each of these surgeries, I highly recommend you pick up a copy of his book. I’ll be doing much more of a summary here.

Facial feminization? Huh? Why would I need that?

The difference between male and female humans is not just in our body fat distribution, pelvis shape and general fuzziness. The presence or absence of testosterone influences our skull shape too, so much so that many adult human skulls can be identified as male or female. Some of the more obvious features of a male skull include a brow ridge and wide jaw. Facial feminization surgeries correct some of these effects of testosterone. Other testosterone effects, such as hair loss or the presence of an “Adam’s apple”, can also be corrected surgically.

The #1 goal cited for FFS is the ability to be recognized as female. Alleviation of dysphoria is also a reason.

Because FFS corrects the masculinization by testosterone, those who did not go through natal puberty likely will not need or want FFS.

Which procedures are core to FFS?

  • Forehead contouring: Bone that makes up the brow ridge is removed and the forehead is re-shaped to a more feminine curve. In most people, the amount of bone that is removed would expose the sinuses in that area, so a bone graft or similar is used. Often combined with scalp advancement.
  • Scalp advancement: To compensate for a higher hair line and/or hair loss, the scalp is repositioned lower down. Often combined with forehead contouring.
  • Rhinoplasty: Reshaping the nose. Male noses tend to be larger than female noses and have different contours. A rhinoplasty can involve all part of the nose, including the tip, the ridge down the center, the size of the nostrils, and back into the nasal septum. Highly recommended to be done with forehead contouring.
  • Lip reshaping: Lips can be feminized by shortening the distance from nose to upper lip and/or adding material to the upper lip to “fill” it out,
  • Sliding genioplasty: Changing the shape and width of the jaw. This is typically done by strategically cutting the jawbone and removing or repositioning segments of it.
  • Jaw tapering/angle reductions: Changing the angle of the point of the jaw. Male jaws are more rectangular, female more pointy. There are three basic ways to accomplish this: grinding away bone in strategic spots, removing sections of bone, and/or reducing the size of the masseter muscle.
  • Thyroid cartilage reduction: The “Adam’s apple” is shaved down to a more feminine size.

Which procedures might be added on, which aren’t necessarily “feminizing”?

  • Temporal fossa augmentation: Filling in the temple with material so it doesn’t look “hollow”
  • Blepharoplasty: An “eyelid lift” – tissue is removed to stop tissue around the eyes from sagging. May not be necessary if you’re having forehead surgeries or scalp-related surgeries.
  • Rhytidectomy: A face-lift. Like blepharoplasty, tissue is removed to “tighten” it up and keep the face from sagging.
  • Otoplasty: Reshaping of the ear
  • Cheek implants: Adding implants to the cheeks to enhance their appearance

Other procedures may be included, depending on what you want and what your surgeon advises.

Will it all be under general anesthesia? How long might my hospital stay be? Recovery time?

Generally speaking, most of these procedures are done under general anesthesia. Some can be done in an outpatient setting (e.g., scalp advance), but most of the time surgeries like these are clustered. That means you typically have more than one procedure done at a time. That clustering helps produce better results and is less risky because you only go under anesthesia once.

The length of your recovery and hospital stay depend on which procedures you have. But generally speaking, if you require a hospital stay at all, it likely won’t be for more than 1-2 days at the most. Most can return to work within a few days, but it may be up to two weeks depending on your procedure. If your procedures involve jaw work, you’ll be on a soft food diet for a period of time.

What risks are involved? Any long-term health risks?

Compared with genital surgeries, the risks in FFS are much less. The work is generally less extensive, and doesn’t enter the abdominal or chest cavity. Still, keep in mind that all surgeries carry risk. These include infection, dead tissue, blood clots, and bad reactions to anesthesia. Because FFS affects the face, there is always a risk of an unsatisfactory result. Do your research and choose your surgeon wisely.

Another risk is that of numbness or sensory problems. Temporary numbness is common after surgery, even a year afterward in the case of scalp advancement. Permanent numbness is a very rare event.

I don’t know of any long-term health risks for facial feminization surgery. Make sure your primary care provider knows what surgeries you had, just to be on the safe side.

Scars? This is my face after all!

Surgeons who do FFS are usually very good at hiding scars. It’s their job after all – to show no evidence that there was surgery done. One of the most common scars is a small scar along the hairline from a scalp advance – that can be covered by hair transplants at the time of surgery, and it will fade over time. Do talk with your surgeon about the possibility of scars and ask his/her recommendations for scar prevention, but don’t stress over it.

So what’s the downside here? There has to be one!

FFS can be expensive. And it’s even less likely to be covered by insurance than genital surgery – so you’ll need to save up your pennies. There are also very few FFS surgeons in the world, so your options are limited.

Are there any health conditions that mean I can’t get it?

Just the usual prohibitions for surgery. Some surgeons may also have their own requirements, like non-smoking status or normal BMI.

Anything else I should know? Resources?

Listen to your surgeon, but be willing to get a second opinion. Also check out…





The metoidioplasty is one of two potential genital surgeries for trans men. It takes advantage of the fact that trans men already have a penis: their clitoris!

With testosterone, the clitoris grows. A metoidioplasty removes tissue around the clitoris. This exposes more of it and helps it to hang in a more male position. That’s why a metoidoplasty is sometimes also called a “clitoral release” or a “free-up”. That’s it — that’s the core of a metoidioplasty.

In addition, the urethra can also be routed through the neopenis. At the same time the vagina can also be removed, and a scrotum made from the labia. A metoidioplasty does not remove the cervix, uterus, or ovaries. That would be a different surgery. However some surgeons will perform a hysterectomy at the same time as a metoidioplasty.

All in all, a metoidioplasty preserves the tissues that are already there. It shuffles them around into a masculine shape. Not everybody will have everything done, and there are many options.

Why would I want a metoidioplasty?

Everyone has their own reasons. Here are some that I have heard:

  • Ability to “pass” in male spaces, such as bathrooms and locker rooms. With genital surgery, the fear of having a towel around the waist slip at an awkward moment is gone.
  • Relieving gender dysphoria. What’s not to like about that?
  • Ability to pee standing up. Only with a urethral lengthening procedure, which carries its own risks.
  • Keeping erections and erogenous sensation. Some men are also able to penetrate during sex after a metoidioplasty.
  • Cheaper, easier to find a surgeon, and fewer surgeries than a phalloplasty with good results.

What is involved in metoidioplasty? What are my options?

Different surgeons will include different specific stages to a metoidioplasty. But the core of a metoidioplasty is clitoral release. The clitoris is freed from its surrounding tissues so it can hang the way a penis hangs.

Others steps are often included, including…

  • Vaginectomy: Removal of the vagina. May be required for some forms of urethral lengthening. Usually combined with a scrotoplasty, which fuses the labia together to make a scrotum. At the same time testicular implants can also be placed.
  • Urethral lengthening: The urethra is routed through the neopenis and lengthened using other tissue. This allows peeing through the penis and while standing.
  • Hysterectomy, oophorectomy: Removal of the uterus, fallopian tubes, and ovaries.

I’ve heard there are different techniques. What are they?

The biggest difference centers around urethral lengthening. Since the urethra is only so long, other tissue is used to lengthen it. That tissue can come from the vagina or inner labia, or it can come from the inside of your cheek (“buccal”).

Surgeons often have their own individual techniques and strategies in addition.

Can you tell me more about the surgery? Does it require full anesthesia? How long would I be in the hospital? What kind of recovery time am I looking at?

It depends on which specific procedures you have done.

For a simple metoidioplasty only without urethral lengthening, vaginectomy/scrotoplasty, or hysterectomy, some surgeons will perform it under “twilight” anesthesia. This is also called conscious sedation. You’ll be relaxed and won’t feel pain but will likely stay awake. This level of sedation is also used by some dentists, so it’s not unique to this procedure. If you’re also having more intense procedures, like urethral lengthening, then you’ll be under general anesthesia.

The surgery itself lasts anywhere from 2-5 hours depending on what procedures you’re having. You’ll likely spend one night in recovery in the hospital. Full recovery time also varies. One surgeon advises bed rest for 24 hours, plus either 7-14 days off work with no heavy lifting for 2-4 weeks. Again — this depends on your surgery. specifics

What are the possible risks of metoidioplasty?

The usual risks with surgery apply here: adverse drug reactions, bleeding, infection and the like. Permanent loss/reduction in sensation may occur, as with all surgeries. And pain can persist for a long time.

The penis itself can end up twisted (torqued), which is repairable by surgery. The length may also be less than was hoped.

Urethral lengthening caries its own risks, including urethral narrowing or blockage, and urethral fistula. Urethral fistula is when a hole forms between the urethra and somewhere it shouldn’t be — so urine may spray from the underside of the penis, for example. Narrowing, blockage, and fistula can be repaired surgically. The stream of urine may also spray or be not what you expect.

What about scars?

The beauty of metoidioplasty is that it doesn’t leave very visible scars.

How will metoidioplasty affect my long-term health?

The metoidioplasty itself (the clitoral extension) doesn’t generally have long-term health implications unless there were complications. The same applies to the urethral lengthening.

Vaginectomy removes your risk for vaginal cancer. If you also had a hysterectomy/oophorectomy, you no longer are at risk for those cancers. However in order to maintain bone health it’s important to stay on sex hormones (testosterone) life-long.

Can I have penetrative sex with my partners after a metoidioplasty?

It depends, but the answer is definitely not “no”. Different people have different results, and different surgeons have different results too. Some surgeons report 4-6cm (1.6-2.4″) long penises, others boast 6-12cm (2.4-4.7″). Being creative with positions and having a flexible partner with a normal or low BMI are both helpful.

If being able to penetrate a partner is the most important thing for you, then you might want to consider a phalloplasty.

More information?

I am not a surgeon, nor an expert on surgeries! Check out some of these other resources and surgeon websites for more information:




Phalloplasty is one of two options for genital surgery for trans men. While it’s more expensive and extensive than the metoidioplasty, the additional size is often appreciated by the men who opt for it.

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Why would I want a phalloplasty?

Everyone has their own reasons. Here are some that I have heard:

  • Ability to “pass” in male spaces, such as bathrooms and locker rooms. With genital surgery, the fear of having a towel around the waist slip at an awkward moment is gone.
  • Relieving gender dysphoria. What’s not to like about that?
  • Ability to pee standing up. Only with a urethral lengthening procedure, which carries its own risks.
  • Having a large penis. It both clearly identifies you as male and allows for penetrative sex.

What is involved in phalloplasty? What are my options? And what different techniques are there?

Phalloplasty is one of the most complex genital surgeries, with a lot of different varieties. Phalloplasty is anywhere from 1 to 4 surgeries, and often includes these procedures:

  • Creation of a phallus. There are two basic techniques: either a pedicled flap or a free flap. Pedicled flaps are from nearby areas and remain attached to the body at all times. Free flaps can be from other areas of the body (common areas are the forearm and back) and are fully detached and then reattached. Here’s an NSFW diagram comparing the two. We’ll talk more on these in a moment…
  • Urethral lengthening. The inner labia, among other tissues, are used to lengthen the urethra so you can pee from the tip of the penis. Not all surgeons do this.
  • Vaginectomy and scrotoplasty with implants. The vaginal tissue is removed and may be used in urethral lengthening. The labia are stitched together to make a scrotum, which can then have testicular implants.
  • Hysterectomy and oophorectomy. Removal of the uterus, fallopian tubes, and ovaries.
  • Penile implant. An implant to allow for erection is inserted. This is an additional surgery after the original surgeries have well healed, often 9 months or more.
  • Glansoplasty. Refinement of the appearance of the head of the penis.

Different surgeons do these parts at different stages. Some surgeons don’t do certain techniques at all — I know of at least one surgeon who doesn’t do urethral lengthening in their phalloplasties.

The tissue of the penis is typically “rolled up” to make a penis, no matter where it’s from. That’s an unflattering description, but it produces some fabulous results.

As for the technique — they’re either a pedicle technique or a free flap technique. Pedicle techniques take tissue from the abdomen or inner thigh and rotate it into its final place. Pedicles have their original nerves and blood supply, so some say they have less erogenous sensation. Pedicles do have less visible scarring than free flap.

Free flap detaches tissue completely from its old location and attaches it using microsurgery to its new home as a penis. Sensation is often intact because of this microsurgery. The tissue is usually from the forearm, back, or inner thigh. Scarring can potentially be an issue.

Both techniques provide erogenous and non-erogenous sensation. Both can be used for penetrative sex and for urinating while standing. Both are considered aesthetically pleasing — it’s up to what you want, your health, and what your chosen surgeon recommends for you.

Can you tell me more about the surgery? Does it require full anesthesia? How long would I be in the hospital? What kind of recovery time am I looking at?

Phalloplasty is an intense surgery. All phalloplasties require full anesthesia. Pedicle generally requires less surgery time than free flap. I’ve seen hospital stays vary from 2-6 days, and initial recovery lasting 2-4 weeks. Return to work is often from 4-8 weeks depending on the surgery, your recovery, and how strenuous your work is.

For multiple stage phalloplasties, the first stage is often the longest and additional stages take less time and are less expensive.

What are the possible risks of phalloplasty?

The usual risks with surgery apply here: adverse drug reactions, bleeding, infection and the like. Permanent loss/reduction in sensation may occur, as with all surgeries. And pain can persist for a long time.

The penis itself can end up twisted (torqued), which is repairable by surgery. And rarely some or all of the tissue can become infected or even die.

Penile implants occasionally have complications. They can slowly erode through the penis or become infected. These complications are rare with today’s techniques and implants.

Urethral lengthening caries its own risks, including urethral narrowing or blockage, and urethral fistula. Urethral fistula is when a hole forms between the urethra and somewhere it shouldn’t be — so urine may spray from the underside of the penis, for example. Narrowing, blockage, and fistula can be repaired surgically. The stream of urine may also spray or be not what you expect.

What about scars?

Pedicle techniques have less scarring than free flap. Free flap scars can be significant but aren’t always — it depends on how you heal.

Free flap techniques cause large scars where tissue was taken from. Often, the entire forearm of one arm is scarred. The appearance of the scar will fade with time.

How will phalloplasty affect my long-term health?

The phalloplasty itself doesn’t generally have long-term health implications unless there were complications. The same applies to the urethral lengthening.

Vaginectomy removes your risk for vaginal cancer. If you also had a hysterectomy/oophorectomy, you no longer are at risk for those cancers. However in order to maintain bone health it’s important to stay on sex hormones (testosterone) life-long.

Can I have penetrative sex with my partners after a phalloplasty?

If you have a penile implant, yes. A penile implant is required to achieve an erection.

Can I stand to urinate after a phalloplasty?

If you have a urethral lengthening procedure, yes.

What about the clitoris?

The clitoris can be buried at the base of the penis or tucked just underneath the penis. Either way, it can and does provide erogenous sensation.

Can I have a phalloplasty if I’ve already had a metoidioplasty?


More information?

I am not a surgeon, nor an expert on surgeries! Check out some of these other resources and surgeon websites for more information:

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    Suprefact is a blocker which it’s on label use it to stop the body from producing any hormones. We have used it for the past 5 years with amazing results in both M-F and F-M transitions. It almost cuts medical transition time in half due to lack of competing chemistry in the body.

    It is also a nose spray which is preferred by many over a pill or shot. Androcur or Spiro both are off label uses, using a known side effect of the drug for benefit. Suprefact is on label used for precisely this use.

    Just FYI in a really good FAQ.

    Michelle Boyce
    Executive Director and Psychotherapist
    Alphabet Community Centre

    • Hey – thanks for pointing that out! I had had buserelin cataloged mentally as a GnRH agonist but I see it’s actually an LHRH analog. Interesting!

      I think there is a movement within medicine to try to use drugs like buserelin for transition. The biggest factor is definitely cost. I’ve seen GnRH analog implants run around $2400/year and injections several hundred every 3 months here in the United States. But I see that your organization is in London… are such things covered/cheaper in the UK?

      Would love to chat and compare notes on differences in care between the US and UK, and different medications. I’ll send you an e-mail and we can take this off the public channel. 🙂 Pleasure to meet you, Michelle!

  2. I have been trying to find factual medical evidence to answer this. Can you help please.

    Say a Trans man starts puberty blockers at age 10 (Tanners stage 2) but at age 14-15 decides it isnt right and decides to stop and revert back to female. Will ovaries and breasts develop normally and she be able to bear children or has irreversible damage likely occured?

    Great info resource btw.

    • Yes, I can help with that question. If puberty blockers are stopped then puberty will resume. The person in question would develop breasts and menstruate just like any other woman. No irreversible damage will occur. You can think of puberty blockers as a “pause” button.

      Puberty blockers are also used for young people with precocious puberty. That’s a condition where they go into puberty too early (e.g., as a toddler). Puberty blockers help them delay puberty until a more average age.

      • Thanks Rose, alas that seems contra to what is stated above in ‘What about biological kids?’
        “If you have not gone through natal puberty, then your testes/ovaries never got the capacity for reproducing.”

        To me that seems to read if you have used blockers, gone through the normal period of puberty and then stop blockers, you wont be able to have kids because the ovaries havent developed properly.

        What your saying is that if you use blockers, then stop them, ovaries will then develop normally and you can have kids.

        I realise these GnRH blockers are different then the Testosterone blockers MtF use but after a couple of years use, they will cause irreversible damage to the testies. I’d sure like to find something medically to reassure a person.

        But thanks

        • Sounds like I’ve been confusing! I do apologize for that. Let me clarify. 🙂

          Puberty blockers pause the process of natal puberty. You can go straight from the blockers onto cross-sex hormones. If you choose to do that, then the ovaries/testes don’t fully develop. At this point there is no way to have genetic children without fully developed ovaries/testes, though there’s some research into that on-going for children with cancer.

          But blockers can also be used for a short time without cross-sex hormones. A person can (and they do!) go onto blockers, then off again, without any kind of transition. While on blockers their puberty is paused. Once they go off blockers, puberty resumes and the ovaries/testes will develop as if blockers weren’t involved. They have the possibility of fertility.

          People who had precocious puberty, who were on puberty blockers to delay their puberty, are still potentially fertile after all. 🙂

          It’s absolutely true that the anti-androgens used by adult trans women are different from puberty blockers. Infertility can result from the use of anti-androgens, but infertility is not guaranteed.

          And I just want to remind you that I am not a medical professional. While I’ve learned a lot of this information from medical professionals and researchers, including professionals focused on fertility, I myself cannot give medical advise. As always, I recommend you consult a physician if this is at all a personal medical question. 🙂 Not trying to put you off though!

          Let me know if that still doesn’t make sense and I’d be happy to try again. I’ll go in and clarify my language in the 101 too.

          • All great thanks.

            Yes totally aware you arent a medical professional nor trying to be, appreciated.
            But you have clearly good knowledge thanks.

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  4. This document keeps getting better and better.

    One question I get (and don’t know how to answer, at all) is taking birth control WITH testosterone, especially when it’s a low-dose t that won’t stop periods. Maybe you can explain this more in-depth.

    • Micah – I’m so sorry I missed your comment here! I don’t have a really solid answer on the hows and whys. When possible, as always, I recommend consulting your physician.

      But here are some of my thoughts…

      The biggest concern that flows through my head with birth control is making sure that estrogen-related risks (DVT!) are minimized. T aromatizes to E, as you know, so I wonder if taking T while taking E would boost the E too high.

      Usually what I hear about for birth control for folks taking T is an IUD – lasts forever and no new hormones added to their system. Even IUDs with hormones (e.g., Mirena, which is progesterone only) can work well because those hormones aren’t systemic, they’re local.

      Progesterone-only birth control is another option I’ve heard about (e.g., depo provera), which is good for those who are dysphoric about their vagina/cervix. Since it can stop menstruation it may also be an option for guys who are dysphoric about menstruation but can’t/don’t want T.

      (And of course barriers methods!)

      Hope that helps

      • Trans man here, just confirming that IUDs are an excellent choice for birth control. I’ve had my copper IUD (Paragard) for three years, and have not suffered the side effects of worsening menstruation due to beginning HRT at the same time. Progesterone IUDs can also be used, and in people unable to commence HRT immediately, may even reduce or eliminate menstruation in a significant number of people using it for a year or more. However, I would like to mention that I had some serious stab-like pains the first couple of years on HRT with my IUD, and have had similar results reported to me by a few other trans men. Whether with is due to atrophy of the reproductive tract, I’m not sure, but it’s a risk to consider.

  5. Actually, hormones are only *recommended* unless medically contraindicated or if the person is otherwise unwilling, in the latest WPATH SOC and on my Anthem Blue Cross California plan–even for bottom surgery! (Which, sidenote, more and more insurance plans are covering transition, hooray!)

    I would really appreciate more info on vaginectomy. The only thing I’ve found so far is Dr. Webb and Dr. Meltzer talking a little bit about it.

    I also have an appointment next month with Dr. Deutsch at the Center of Excellence for Transgender Health, to talk about life without sex hormones. All this “could be” bad for bones talk makes me wonder why I couldn’t just take osteoporosis preventative medication, like cis women undergoing menopause or like cis men who are eunuchs. I think no one’s thought about it because no one’s expressed interest, and I’m here to say I’m interested!

    • Even for bottom surgery under your health plan? Wow! Also, congrats on the insurance!

      I just double-checked the SOC, but it states on page 202 that the current recommendation is for hormones for 12 months prior to genital surgery (whether vaginoplasty, metoidioplasty, or phalloplasty). But for top surgeries (either reconstruction or augmentation) it’s only recommended.

      I will absolutely be covering vaginectomy! I was originally going to fold it in with my discussion of metoidioplasty, since it’s so commonly part of that. Since you’ve expressed interest, though, I’ll fold it in earlier with the next planned post for this series. That’ll be total hysterectomy (TAHBSO). I’ll do my best to cover it as thoroughly as I can. 🙂 Should be out early next week, so keep your eyes peeled!

      Dr. Deutsch is a lovely person. I hope you have a very informative visit with her. My understanding is that even the preventative medication doesn’t quite make up for the lack of sex hormones of some kind. Listen to what Dr. Deutsch says on the matter, and make the decision that’s right for you.

      Regardless, definitely make sure you’re doing all the recommended things for maintaining bone health: take those calcium supplements, get enough sunshine, and get plenty of weight-bearing exercise!

      Thank you for the feedback. 🙂

  6. thacking estradiol 4mg a day will i still have an erectirn

    • Most people on feminizing medications (estradiol and/or antiandrogens) will still be able to have erections but it’ll probably be more difficult. Be patient, and be willing to play around with various supporting devices. You may find you need to use more erotica or a pump to help you along.

      If erections are important to you, be sure to let your physician know when you go on feminizing hormones. If you’re unable to get or sustain an erection despite playing around with erotica/toys/etc, then consult your physician. There are medications which can help which don’t stall the feminizing process.

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  10. im using estrogen alone 6mg after maximum feminization is evident do i reduc the dose ore not

    • Your physician is the best person to ask, in truth. S/he will be able to judge whether you need to go up/down in your medications based on your health and transition.

      But in general – the dose of feminizing hormones prescribed is usually balanced to have maximum feminization with minimal side effects (based on current research). So that dose is (typically) one you stay on for a lifetime unless you have an orchiectomy/vaginoplasty.

  11. Very handy collection of information! Some suggestions: maybe have (especially from trans women/dmab folks — dmab being designated male at birth, to clarify) anecdotal reports on the various topics you don’t have personal experience with — or even the ones that you do; a lot of people have very different experiences and I can’t imagine that a wider range of representation could do anything but help nascent trans folks understand what’s going on/what’s ahead. Also, in the “am I trans” section — I know a lot of people who had discarded (or continue to) the possibility of being trans because they didn’t “know” as children; I think having that question present and answered positively (there is no “right time” to be trans, just like there’s no “right way” to be trans) would be helpful. Especially, I think, for older folks, and for trans women/dmab trans folks.

    Additionally, I’d love to see a compilation of Trans History 101 here as well. It’s important both to pay respects to the folks who came before and to know that we have a history, too.

    Since I’m making all these suggestions — if you decide to take me up on any of them I am of course more than happy to help out, either with my own knowledge or by helping to seek other people out.

    • James — I can’t express how much I appreciate feedback! 🙂 Thank you! You make many excellent points. Let me address them one by one…

      Anecdotal experiences. I’ve tried to take all the experiences I read and synthesize them into a whole here. But it sounds like I either didn’t express the sheer variety of experiences or I need to actually be quoting people. I’ll add something in t

      Age. I had thought I had addressed the age question. Eek! Going back in and adding that now. Sorry about that!

      History. I’d love to see that too! It’s out of my realm of experience and expertise, so I’ll defer to Susan Stryker’s book on the subject.

      Thank you again. 🙂

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  15. Thanks for putting this page together, I am going to share this with trans people I know that can benefit from the information here. BTW I went through GRS/SRS on 1/27/2015.

  16. Do any (or many) MTF women continue with testosterone after transition? Are there any risks in doing so? For several good reasons (see below) I would like to continue with testosterone instead of using estrogen. My long term health is more important to me than “passing”.

    You list health issues associated with estrogen, so that’s a concern. I have no personal nor family history of any major issues (i.e. diabetes, cancer, etc.) other than smokers in the family, which I never was. Prevention is easier than treatment, so why add any risks post-orchiectomy? Breast implants and body hair removal are the only major physical changes I need. I’m asexual so vaginoplasty isn’t important to me, though orgasm and clothing choices are.

    I also want to keep my natural speaking and singing voices, both which I know how to control and sound feminine when I want. My natural body shape is already feminine (the ratio of foreams, chest, waist, hips and thighs), and I would prefer to maintain my strength and fitness.

  17. I started seeing my first endocrinologist after my second therapy session. He told me he would OK HRT if I quit smoking. I had been smoking since I was 12 or 13 and was forty something; I was a bit angry but was very anxious to start HRT ASAP. The result was that I quit smoking and haven’t smoked for 20 years.
    He started me on a very low dosage without Spiro. and slowly increased. I don’t know if it is related but a year of so later I was almost a C cup and had to bind myself for work before i officially changed my name. Neither of my three sisters have more than an A cup. Now, twenty years later I have settled into a 38 B and am very happy that I transitioned.

  18. Can any one please suggest me a good surgeon for vaginoplasty in Thailand?

  19. Regarding documents, in Ontario it is possible to change gender on your birth certificate with a letter from a physician stating it is necessary and once that is done, you can change other provincial documents. In February 2015, the federal Ministry of Citizenship and Immigration quietly announced that people would be allowed to self-identify (i.e. provincial documents) to change gender on any federal dcumentation.

    • Oh fabulous! So no surgery required, just physician letter? 🙂 Great! Thanks for the non-US perspective. I appreciate it.

      • I forgot to mention the cost is $97, for which you will receive a new wallet size birth certificate and an amended long form.

        In doing research to answer some of the questions, I discovered my family has been in Nova Scotia since 1850 – before Canada was Canada.

        • Thank you again! 🙂

          I know here in the States it varies by state. California (my home state) allows changed birth certificates without surgery last I heard (I am not a lawyer). But some other states don’t allow changes to birth certificates at all, surgery or no. Sigh.

          Hopefully a unified legal name/gender change will be one of next things the LGBT movement as a whole works towards here in the States.

          • I heard that the US Federal Government allowed Gender Changes by individuals on their Passports just as the US Federal Government has long recognized Same Sex Marriages performed in countries other than the US.

  20. According to my Child Development class last year and my textbook from Pearson’s, all babies begin as female and when the sex hormones are introduced to the fetus, these hormones (some of which go to the body and others which go to the brain, specifically the hyper thalamus region) change the baby from female to male or they continue to develop the female reproductive system. There is both a change to the development of the body and of the brain. With the unisex child, the body makes only a partial change with varying results. With the Transgendered child, it is believed that the chemical change in the mind is also only a partial transition, which is why some Transgendered people can carry both male and female chromosomes. It is also why you can begin life as a Unisex person who has almost made a complete transition to male, but only identify as female and vice versa. I hope I’ve explained this clearly enough. I don’t have my book handy, but I’ll certainly send you the title if you are interested. Also, gender and sexuality are not tied together. You can be Transgendered or Unisex and still consider yourself gay, lesbian, bisexual, pansexual, or asexual. One more note. There is a better clearly defined difference between bisexual and pansexual. Let me see if I can help you out since I have one sister who identifies as bisexual and one as pansexual. Pansexual is the ability to be with any sex generally, but they do not feel a basic need for more than one sexual partner. Although they can comfortably be with male, female unisex, etc. Omnisexuals feel a basic need for more than one sexual partner to feel complete and is infrequently mentioned, but like Pansexuals can be with male, female or unisex partners. Bisexuals feel a basic need for both male and female partners to feel complete, but do not feel attractions for the unisex partner. The confusion between bisexual and pansexual is the distinction of whether or not you feel a basic need for both the male and female (true definition of bisexual) or if you are comfortable with any partner regardless of the body. I hope this helps to clear things up.

  21. As much as I know about gender and sexuality and biology, I still don’t understand myself. My odd situation sparked my interest in these areas and I’ve talked to thousands about these topics. I still have no clear answers for myself other than I was born female and only have attraction for other females, but I don’t completely identify as female. Instead, I fall somewhere in the middle. In a perfect world I would if been born unisex. I FEEL both male and female. I have met lots of others in the same boat as me and we are all just as lost. I do not want surgery, it would complicate my relationship with my lesbian wife, however if I was not married to a gay woman, I would opt for partial surgery. I like the question someone asked, “If you were immortal and the surgery was painless would you get the surgery?” My answer is “yes” so I must be Transgendered. I am just extraordinarily androgynous. Many Transgendered people, however tell me I am not Transgendered. I am not sure if is a lack of education on their part, or if I am misunderstanding something somewhere. I was hoping you, or someone else here, might be able to help me out?

  22. Has anyone been using Diane-35 and if so how is that working for them? I do not live in the US and have access to the product. I have been on Estradiol Valerate for approximately 5 years along with Finastride and Progestrone.

    I have had breast implants and have been living as a women for the past few years. Recently I have been exploring having an Orchie, but the doctor I saw wasn’t interested so I am in the process of identifying other doctors, but I might need to travel a bit.

    Therefore, I am exploring switching drug regimes in the meantime.

    To all those out there I was living as a woman prior to getting breasts implants, but getting the implants made my life, shall we say so much more rewarding and when money allows I will get the Vaginoplasty because I think and dream as woman and have for as long as I can remember. As a child I would wrap up tight in a blanket and dream I would awake a girl. I’m not a virgin and I don’t know how many M to F are like me, but in order for me to have an erection as a male I had to dream I was the Girl being penetrated. I am so much more happy today.

    Take Care Cherry

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  24. Can the next update talk about dysphoria before and after starting the process of transitioning?

    • Yes!

      While I can’t speak from personal experience on dysphoria, I can report on some of the research on dysphoria before and after transition.

  25. My name is Brooklyn Bagwell and I’m a Casting Director at Sharp Entertainment. I wanted to reach out to you because we’re now casting for a new documentary series about transgender individuals that are in the beginning phases of transitioning – their social transition, changing their appearance and becoming their true authentic self in public for the first time.

    In this series we will follow 3 transgender individuals for three weeks as they prepare for their social transition. We’re also working with a well-known transgender coach. His name is Tony Ferraiolo and he will help guide these individuals that are currently dealing with their social transition.

    I would love to chat with you more about this casting call. Please email me

    All my best,

  26. I’m well past that. lol

  27. Hi Im 14 and almost 15 will i still be able to get hormones?

    • If you’re in the United States, have the support of your parents or legal guardians, and can find a physician who will prescribe, yes. Since you’re under the age of 18 guardian approval is, as far as I know, required for you to receive most medical care…and hormone therapy is medical care.

      If you have parents/guardians who are not supportive, it gets more complex. If that’s the case for you, I *highly* recommend doing your best to get some trans supportive therapy (for both yourself and your parents) and support groups.

      • Yes my mom and dad do approve

        • You’re very lucky! 🙂 Talk with your parents about getting in to see a physician near you who does hormones. Your own pediatrician may be willing to learn or “refer” you to see another doctor (like a pediatric endocrinologist). If you’re near a big city like New York, Boston, Los Angeles, or San Francisco there are big medical centers specifically for LGBT people that can also help. Resources like WPATH and GLMA also have lists on their websites of physicians who can help.

  28. Hello great article tho I was wondering if you know by any chance in a dosage for Swanson’s ovary glandular pills at 250mg. It says one pill a day for an adult woman it says nothing for men and naturally they don’t recommend guys take it but I’ve read a few reviews saying there great for us trans women and I grow tired of not being on any form of hormones so I bought a couple bottles for why not? But I want to make sure I do this properly and take a correct dosage so I was thinking one in morning one at night but I want to make sure if that’s good or not so if you have any idea or know of anyone who would I would greatly appreciate any help I could get on this matter or even if you know of something else to try hormonally one could get without a subscription

    • Hi there,

      Bovine ovary extract (which is what Swanson’s says they’re selling) is a new one for me, but I did some searching through the medical and research literature. There are a couple of different factors to consider…
      1. Supplements may not include the actual ingredients the manufacturer says they do. There have been a number of studies of herbal products that found that many herbal supplements were ground up weeds, not the actual herbs advertised.
      2. There is no guarantee of strength. 250mg of a bovine extract doesn’t say anything about the amount of estrogens that may be in the pill, unlike a prescription medication which guarantees 2mg of estradiol (a very specific estrogen).
      3. The pills could be dangerous. They may be contaminated with other substances (there have been reports of high levels of heavy metals and prescription drugs in some supplements).
      4. Bovine estrogens are not human estrogens. There was a similar problem years ago with a prescription medication called Premarin, which was horse estrogens. Unlike a supplement, these were precisely measured. Even so, Premarin is the estrogen supplement that is most risky and is associated with blood clots and some cancers. Premarin is no longer recommended for hormone therapy for cis or trans women.

      For more on supplements, I recommend checking out Science Based Medicine.

      So…my recommendation is to not use over the counter supplements for hormone therapy. There’s no guarantee of safety or efficacy when using supplements. The best way to take a correct dosage is to use a prescription hormone that’s been prescribed by your physician. Remember that there are options available for hormone therapy with your physician — pills, injections, implants, creams, and even sprays are available.

      If you’re looking for an over the counter solution because you don’t have a trans-friendly physician willing to prescribe, WPATH has a provider listing. If you still can’t find a physician close to you, let me know and I’ll do what I can to help.

      Hope that’s helpful. And let me know if I can help in any other way or if you have more questions!

  29. Question: does getting an orchiectomy require having been on estrogen for any amount of time? And what’s required in terms of letters? I’m neutrois and assigned male at birth, so I need an orchiectomy to eliminate bottom dysphoria, but estrogen would introduce chest dysphoria, so I really don’t want to have to do that. I do understand the likelihood of needing some kind of hormone supplement post-op to prevent bone decay; that will most likely mean taking testosterone, but hopefully in a dosage resulting in a lower (but still safe) level of testosterone than my body currently produces. Thanks for your help.

    • That’ll depend on your specific surgeon. There’s no medical reason to be on estrogen before having an orchiectomy. Orchies are also performed for cis men for testicular cancer, testicular twisting, and so on. Your biggest challenge will be finding a surgeon willing to do that orchiectomy.

      For letters, the standards of care recommend two letters from mental health care providers (even for an orchiectomy). The details of those letters are on pages 27 and 28 of the Standards of Care. You’ll also need a “pre-op” visit with a primary care physician, and probably will need a letter from them too.

      There are things other than just sex hormones that can help maintain your bone health. Weight bearing exercise and getting sufficient calcium and vitamin D are a good start. If needed, there are some prescription medications which can also help. Bone health is definitely something to talk with your physician about as well.

      Best of luck!! I hope this was helpful.

  30. what if I want to get phalloplasty but keep my vagina? I know this seems extremly strange but thats what I want

    • I don’t know of any surgeons who share results of a surgery like that. They may or may be not be able to provide such a surgery — I just don’t know. It would be best to ask surgeons directly. An alternative, if you’re willing to consider it, might be a metoidioplasty without vaginectomy. The penis wouldn’t be as large, but it would still be there.

  31. Who do I talk to to get HRT for mtfs? I’m 16 almost 17 and my mum is willing to help, I just need a point in the right direction because I’ve been trying for months with no luck….I’m dysphoric nearly to suicide and I really need this

    • I’m so sorry to hear your dysphoria is so bad. 🙁 Please, take care of yourself. It really does get better. But I’m glad to hear you have a parent on your side.

      First person to talk with is your primary care doctor. That would be either your family doctor or your pediatrician. You may want your mother in the room for backup during the conversation. If that doctor isn’t helpful, it’s time to go digging. Are there local providers listed on the GLMA and WPATH provider listings? (just google them — they’re worldwide listings too) Does your local LGBT center know of any providers? Does a google search for “trans care near my location” give you anything?

      The kind of doctor who can give you HRT is going to be a pediatrician, a pediatric endocrinologist, or a family medicine doctor. Once you’re 18 you’d see a family medicine doctor, internal medicine doctor, or endocrinologist.

      If you’re still not able to find a provider, let me know and I’ll do my best to try to help you find health care.

  32. Hi, one suggestion that is very important to me is to talk less in binaries. You reference top surgery as something important for Trans men, taking testosterone is for Trans men, and taking estrogen is for Trans women. There are people outside of the man/woman binary who still do these same paths and Id love to see some recognition here, perhaps saying “Trans Masculine” and “Trans Feminine” instead of solely assuming anyone taking those paths are part of the binary.

    • this is amazing ive been considering top and bottom surgery reassignment surgery i have disphoria all the time

  33. Hey, so Im a 13 year old boy (14 Nov 27 16 for reference) and I’ve been having transgender feelings. Ive been researching the transition and thinking about my future. I came across this thread and read about the puberty blockers. This isnt a question about the thread but rather a question of guidance. Should I talk to my mom about it? Do I tell my friends? Should I wait until Im 18? Im currently at Tanner stage 2/3. Sorta in between. I figured this would be a good time to adress something like this to ease a possible transition in the future. Im scared because I don’t want to lose my mom (disowning kinda thing). My dad has already left me. I also dont want to lose any friends. I have really great friends and dont want to lose them, but I have no clue how they would take something like this. Im really scared and confused, if anyone is willing to talk/help it would be greatly appreciated.

    • I wish I could give you an easy answer.

      Ultimately you are the best judge of whether your mother will reject you. If you think she won’t reject you, then consider coming out to her. If you think she will reject you, your best bet is probably to stay closeted for now. Sometimes you can tell by off-hand comments that people make (e.g., a comment against bathroom equality probably means that the person is not transgender friendly). You can try bringing up gay or transgender related topics in casual conversation and see what her (and your friends) reactions are. That sometimes can give you a good sense of whether or not to come out to someone.

      Regardless of what you think her reaction will be, it’s in your best interest to be prepared for the worst. Get some hotline numbers ready, know where you can go for safety if there’s a crisis, and make sure you can grab your valuables if needed.

      One way you can also try to address your concerns is by talking with a counselor or therapist before coming out. This can be tricky if you’re not already in contact with one. You can try to ask your mother for therapy by saying you have depression or anxiety, if you’re not ready to come out yet. Your physician may also be a good resource — though as always, use good judgment before coming out. If you have a local diversity or LGBT center you can get to safely, they’re great resources too.

      Most important of all, take care of yourself. Exercise, eat well, and do whatever emotional self care you need.

  34. I want to start taking female hormones I love wearing dresses high heels love makeup and love doing girly thing’s but I’m on madiacd I hate looking like a man I want to look like a beautiful woman I do it’s on TV I been dressing up since I was 11 years old I hope you can help me thanks for you time

    • Philip,

      Your best bet is to find a local physician who can help you. Do you need help finding a doctor? Planned Parenthood usually takes MediCaid and may be able to help.


  35. What wonderful information and guidance your article has provided me.
    I am a 50 year mtf transgender just starting my trans to a person i have known all my life but was unable to fully embrace.
    I “came out” as a gay guy when i was very young but still felt a longing for a part of me that was still missing from my life.
    Having had more and more times in hospital with testicle and penis injuries i finally found a pshyologist i was able to open up to about my feeling about my sexuality
    I will have as you know months of talking leading to my end goal of surgery to remove my penis and testicles making room for a vagina also helping me grow womanly breasts.
    I cannot wait for all this to happen to me go forward from this living a life i should have been living years ago if i had took the chance and opened up years ago.

  36. If a transguy is on T, do they have to have Metoidioplasty surgery even if they *don’t* want it? Does this depend on how much growth happens, and is it painful if it is not performed?

    • Trans men don’t need to have a meta if they don’t want it. The growth that happens on T isn’t usually painful.

  37. Thank you so much for this resource! This is the most easy-to-follow, comprehensive website I’ve come across. I could not be more grateful!

  38. I want to know if transgender people who become women could take hormones for a lifetime why can’t women take hormones for the rest of their lives hormones are really great for you for the anti aging process and they’re really great to keep your bone strength and so on the doctors won’t put women on hormones for the rest of their lives and that’s not fair

    • Cis women don’t take hormones life long because they have a uterus/ovaries and have had more breast tissue for longer. Long term use of estrogen/progesterone in cis women is associated with breast cancer, ovarian/uterine cancer, and cardiovascular risk. Cis women also (usually) keep their ovaries life long, so they produce their own hormones (yes, even after menopause).

      Trans women take hormones to replace what their ovaries would have produced if they had had ovaries. This is especially important for trans women who have had orchiectomy. They replace hormones only to the level where they would have been if they had ovaries. And many doctors do reduce the dose over time so that they’re at a menopausal level of hormones.

      It’s all about risk-benefit. For cis women (with ovaries), it would be extra hormones and studies show those hormones are ultimately harmful. For trans women, it’s just as if they had had their ovaries removed — the hormones aren’t “extra”, they’re replacing what was “removed” (i.e., not there). And for trans women, the risks of vein clots and breast cancer are less than the mental health benefits.

      Hope that helps!

  39. Hey there. First off, I just want to say this article is so amazing and well put together 🙂
    I am a 20 year-old Trans man, and my question, (and I completely understand that you may not know this or be able to varify it, since taking hormones is different for everyone), but I have been on T for about over a year, and I just started taking Anastrozole, an estrogen blocker. I took it, too excited to really read up on it and trusting my doctor to know it’s right. But I’ve read that it isn’t actually that good, causes brittle bones, hot flashes, ect. Or that only younger people pre-transition take it, or people trying to stop their cycles (mine stopped really early on) and I just want to know if I’ll still be ok, and won’t have all my bones breaking on me (I know that sounds silly but my mind goes to crazy places) and terrible mood swings. I just want my transition to go right, and not have these medical fears looming over me. Thanks in advance, and I really hope you reply….

    • Waylon,

      All medications have side effects. If your physician recommends a medication it’s typically because they’ve weighed the risks of side effects and the potential benefits and found that the benefits outweigh the risks. All medications have a side effect list a mile long — that’s where your physician comes in. They know which side effects happen frequently enough or are serious enough to worry about. If you’re still unsure, feel free to talk with a pharmacist. They’re also a great resource.

      Potentially weakened bones and hot flashes are a side effect of low sex hormone levels (specifically, estrogen — which everyone has). The #1 best thing you can do is keep your doctor in the loop. Talk with them about your fears and ask if there’s anything you specifically should be concerned about, given your personal/family history.

      For bone health, make sure you’re getting enough calcium/vitamin D (best from foods, not supplements) and plenty of weight bearing exercise. Bone weakening because of low estrogen happens over years (think menopause), so it’s good to build up the healthy habits now…no matter what hormones you’re on.

      Hot flashes are annoying but are not dangerous. For mood swings, use good psychological self care. They will pass.

      Ultimately — you’ll very likely be okay. Take good care of your body and mind, keep your doctor in the loop, and your body will do the rest. 🙂 I hope that’s helpful.


  40. Is it a brain condition? I heard someone say being transgender is an intersex condition. Is that true?


    Transgender is not an intersex condition. Intersex refers to people who were born with ambiguous genitals or were diagnosed with a disorder of sex development (DSD). DSDs are medical conditions that affect the biological sex development of an individual. ……….

    I do understand the commonly used definition of intersex, as you gave above. Using that classification system, transsexuality is not considered part of intersex.

    I am transsexual, so I have a strong need to understand transsexuality and in particular the implications and consequences for my life.

    Transmen’s pelvis show some similarity to men’s pelvis. This shows that the trans situation is more complex than just brain differentiation. There are effects in both the brain and the body. Similarly for teeth shapes and more examples are being found as further research is conducted.

    In the same way that intersex people have some aspects of male and female in one body, trans* people have similar effects in our brains and in our bodies. In my opinion, this shows that for us, gender is mixed up in our brains and in our bodies.

    My interpretation, for my own body, is that I should not attempt to try to be a black and white ciswoman, I can only be a transwoman. Initially I didn’t like this interpretation, as in my feelings I would rather be a real authentic woman.

    However, I feel that I have no choice but to accept this reality. So I am moving forward in my MtF transition, not expecting to be real woman. I want continuity of my life pre-transition to post-transition. I want to try to keep some of the best parts of having been male, in future life. Obviously my two children is big part of this.
    But I still like most of the masculinity in my body. Many people think I am crazy. It is a bit like I am detransitioning, even before I have transitioned forwards. I feel that most detransitioners expected too much of a black and white change of sex. But that seemed totally unrealistic to me.
    Hormones have taken away most of my intrusive suicidal thoughts. But I still sometimes impulsively risk take. Two years of psychotherapy is helping but I obviously have further to go, to work through my internalised transphobia. As my fears reduce, I am coming more and more to appreciate the situation that I am in. I like to position, part way between the two sexes and not too close to either.

    I embrace (almost) neither and both. I want the best of both worlds.

    To my immense surprise, as transition unfolds slowly, it seems that I am able to keep the parts of masculinity that I value the most and enjoy what I see as the best of femininity too. It is not all bad. I like what hormones are doing to my body, now that I have been able to slowly take off layers and layers of fear.
    So, I suggest that trans should be seen as part of the total intersex grouping. That is a more realistic approach, harder to face and accept, but safer in the long run to accept the sometimes harsh realities up front.
    Interestingly, treating trans as part of intersex allows us to use the better research on body intersex than exists on trans brains, as suggestions of similar mangled differentiation in the brain ie not black and white. To make the best of our lives, we need to understand our brain possibilities and limitations and also the same confusions in our body (though less dramatically so than for intersex body people).
    Thank you very much for your site!
    Murray Bacon.

  41. i am 56 year old man i want know if i become transgender women can i give birth to a child my own

  42. And… What about genetical hacking…??………… I’ve read in some pages that the genes on Y chromosome which make the X become a Y are SRY, SOX8, SOX9 and DMRT1. And the one which lets ascdfemale sex remain reproductive is FOXL2.

    By other hand, I’ve heard about Binaural Beats, which transform your brain thoughts, and moreover, they may hack certain genes in a certain way, using certain frequencies. (Tell me if I’m getting confused with Subliminal Frequencies Hypnosis.) But I haven’t found the precise ones to hack the genes I’ve told above yet…!! I’m male, but as long as I’ve found unexpected theories about male stupidity and Y chromosome malédiction, and I’ve also thought about the several times I’ve been friendly told that I’m so femaled and moreover I trust much more women than man (so those links told me why, and in fact what was actually failing on me), I’ve seen that I would have to have been born a woman… And as my sexual orientation has been towards women, I shall have been born a lesbian, not the straight man I’m supposed to be!!!

    If you can ever come with a solution as an idea, I will be so grateful to read it!! 🙂 All my life has been marked by cognition dissonance…

  43. Thank you for sharing.

  44. Hi my name is Danielle and I’ve been reading some of your notes on here just want to say thank you they helped a lot and I want to get my bottom surgery done very soon I am on hormones for 2 years now

  45. I find this very interesting and a lot of useful information, but what I don’t see being talked about are some possible BAD outcomes.
    My brother ( was female ) is now in a psych clinic because of a mental break! A break in which has been caused by hormone changes in the Brain. Maybe you should list these outcomes,as well as all of your Positive ones.

  46. In the section on HRT you include trans-dermal patches, but have not mentioned estrogel. I have a friend in Britain who was having all sorts of trouble with the patches coming off whenever she was active. My endocrinologist put me on the gel right off and it has worked perfectly with no side effects whatsoever.

    You might want to consider suggesting that as well in future editions.

    This is a great resource, by the way! Thanks.

  47. Hello,
    I have a child, born female, that is trying to decide but there is a lot of health issues involved, Addisons, type 1 diabetes, and Fetal Alcohol Syndrome. Where can I find information on whether HRT is even an option?

  48. Thanks for explaining that it’s a good idea to have our medical records sent over beforehand, since some medical conditions might change the way that hormone therapy needs to be approached. My sibling recently told me that she identifies as a woman, and she wants to start getting hormone therapy soon. I’m glad I read your article because now I feel prepared to help her prepare for successful hormone therapy treatment.

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